I've been a member here for four years or so. I can honestly say that the NUMBER ONE mistake men EVERY man has made with a woman, at one time or another, is..........
COMPLIMENTING HER LOOKS.
Yep. Its as simple as that. You see, it IMMEDIATELY accomplishes a few things:
1. It throws 90 percent of the power right into her lap
2. It tips your hand too quickly (like playing a card too fast)
3. It makes you look like less of a man, because youre TALKING when you should be DEMONSTRATING POWER.
Every watch a Clint Eastwood movie? He NEVER EVER NEVER EVER tips his hand as to his intentions. Everyone around his is basically guessing.
Granted, with his looks he can GET AWAY with a lot. But I presume there are no movie stars on here, so the rest applies.
If its ok, let me tell you a story which happens to be true. Ive dated some incredibly beautiful women, and also some very average ones. Personally, im more interested in brains anyway, and as long as someone keeps themselves fit, i find them attractive.
But there was ONE girl that was stunning. And it was with her that I finally learned how to think like an alpha male.
Without a lot of conscious thought, i showed only mild interest in her, and always acted in control, funny, determined, and driven in her presence.
I NEVER mentioned her looks. That immediately put me into the one percent range, but not only did i not COMPLIMENT or fawn all over her, i avoided the topic entirely.
Before long, she was calling me, asking me over, wanting to go out.
At all times, i was a man with a superior intellect, capabilities, and life. I let her into it when i chose to.
She knew i was attracted to her, but i never gave her any power over me.
Guys, i want to hear your story of how you came to NEVER mention a girls looks. How long did it take you to fnially learn this lesson?
The only exception to this is when YOU ALREADY have all the power.
And even then, begrudingly, because a man DOESNT GIVE UP HIS POWER
COMPLIMENTING HER LOOKS.
Yep. Its as simple as that. You see, it IMMEDIATELY accomplishes a few things:
1. It throws 90 percent of the power right into her lap
2. It tips your hand too quickly (like playing a card too fast)
3. It makes you look like less of a man, because youre TALKING when you should be DEMONSTRATING POWER.
Every watch a Clint Eastwood movie? He NEVER EVER NEVER EVER tips his hand as to his intentions. Everyone around his is basically guessing.
Granted, with his looks he can GET AWAY with a lot. But I presume there are no movie stars on here, so the rest applies.
If its ok, let me tell you a story which happens to be true. Ive dated some incredibly beautiful women, and also some very average ones. Personally, im more interested in brains anyway, and as long as someone keeps themselves fit, i find them attractive.
But there was ONE girl that was stunning. And it was with her that I finally learned how to think like an alpha male.
Without a lot of conscious thought, i showed only mild interest in her, and always acted in control, funny, determined, and driven in her presence.
I NEVER mentioned her looks. That immediately put me into the one percent range, but not only did i not COMPLIMENT or fawn all over her, i avoided the topic entirely.
Before long, she was calling me, asking me over, wanting to go out.
At all times, i was a man with a superior intellect, capabilities, and life. I let her into it when i chose to.
She knew i was attracted to her, but i never gave her any power over me.
Guys, i want to hear your story of how you came to NEVER mention a girls looks. How long did it take you to fnially learn this lesson?
The only exception to this is when YOU ALREADY have all the power.
And even then, begrudingly, because a man DOESNT GIVE UP HIS POWER