"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Number One Indicator of a bad chick on social media

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Living in the modern world where pretty much every woman is constantly on social media has given me a fascination of it. I look at profiles here and there, and try to notice what all red flags you can find from looking at them. I've talked about social media before, but feel this is one of the most obvious and true things I've noticed, and deserves it's own thread.

If a female is active on social media, has a longtime boyfriend they "love" but yet there's no mention of him. It's a blaring red flag, and a great indication of a unfaithful attention wh0re.

Their profiles will have the town they live in, the school they went to, and their job, but absolutely nothing about the guy they're with or their relationship status. They do this because they're looking for d**k on the side. Another thing they typically do is have a profile picture that's obviously fishing for likes. Every woman I know who does this are unfaithful, attention seeking, and could care less about anyone other than theirself.

The one who made me notice the trend has been dating and "in love" with the same dude for five+ years, makes no mention of him online whatsoever, gets on her page daily but has a "sexy kitty" costume from Halloween as her profile pic, and is fvcking two guys that I know of on the side but probably more. Another one is getting married in June but has no mention of the fiancé/engagement, and IS ALWAYS out chasing d**k.

Hopefully none of you guys here have girlfriends like this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lol guys like these is why females are **** :D

I had this so many girls hide the fact they have a boyfriend and if you recently met they wont tell you they have a BF if you dont ask specifically. This is why I always ask them this, to avoid childish drama.


The only real cheating that makes it interesting is when two people who are in LTRs do it. The rest is childish.

But you also have the ones that have noted they have a BF on facebook, but are still having **** on the side :D
 

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As long as desperate men keep giving them attention, their behavior will continue. You shouldn't be concerned about these petty things.
 

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I'm not concerned about it at all. How can people know better than to waste time with these chicks without a warning it?
 

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Mauser96 said:
I expect she will leave him in a year or so unless he changes his ways. I wouldn't really blame her, she deserves better.
Oh really ... how do you know she does ? Maybe guy has depression or mental problems or suffers from stress or anxiety , needs help or therapy after which he can kick a$$ again.You talk like her girfriend or 'nice guy'.All this divorces are because 'they deserve BETTER' and mostly its the root of the problem.Instead of fixing somebody they throw him away and replace with new disposable man.Most men can be fixed - but it requires time,effort,passion and ... love.

I have seen so many potentially good relationship broken by malicious people who have been telling the woman 'she deserves better' that these words make me vomit.

Sometimes they do - but often they already have good man which they need to support through tough times.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Obvious flags are:

-Selfie photos in a mirror all tarted up with numerous likes and pathetic male comments like 'your hot'.

-Vague ambiquous status updates like "I can't believe that just happened..." Followed by 'what's up chick'. 'I'll inbox you now'.

-Put down of men in updates.

-*****y comments and negativity playing the blame game.


On a sidenote, any male who likes and makes 'your stunning' comments on a woman selfie picture needs to man the f,ck up and grow up.
 

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Heisenburger said:
On a sidenote, any male who likes and makes 'your stunning' comments on a woman selfie picture needs to man the f,ck up and grow up.
And learn how to speak English
 

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skinnyguy said:
And learn how to speak English
Oh God, you should have seen what this orbiter I saw on Instagram posted a couple weeks ago. The guy commented on a girls attention seeking selfie with "OH MY DAYUM. I think I just saw the cloan of an angel" :crackup: Me and a friend still quote that orbiter on a almost daily basis.
 

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i know this one

Theduck face....theres 50 more but any duck face pics and im out.
Unless shes obviously taking me to movies...getting me food...
 

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Great, timely post. It will behoove the coming generations to learn how to develop an eye for these sorts of red flags given how connected they are to social media.

I have a younger cousin (age 23) dating a 21-22 year old girl (at least an 8, probably a 9), and the power imbalance seems so tilted in her favor judging from both of their Instagram profiles that I find myself constantly holding myself back from giving him some pedantic, red-pill-esque lecture. A few things I've noticed:

-Underneath his profile pic, he has a lengthy one liner on what "real love" is, how he's in love with his best friend, and the date when they got together. Underneath her profile pic is her location and nothing more.
-They've been together just over five months, and he's posted pics celebrating monthly anniversaries. She has yet to match him with a monthly anniversary posting of her own.
-He comments on all her postings, but she rarely replies to him directly.
-Her profile is public. She has just over 2,000 followers, and a few weeks back she posted a selfie of her in a tub while on vacation from mid-thigh down (dealbreaker for sure in my book). She occasionally still posts a provocative, full-figure selfie every now and then - nothing too risque, a post-workout pic suggesting curves and showcasing her young tight body, but on a public profile while in a relationship??? Then again, she's only in her early 20s and hot..
-He has about 800 followers, many of them cute girls, but I don't think the sense of dread affects her too much, if at all, judging by what I've seen on each of their respective pages. She could definitely land herself a new stud in a very short amount of time if she simply went rogue (or broke up) and "put herself out there" (which, in a sense, she already is doing).
-He's posted almost twice as many relationship posts as she has.


I don't think she's cheating on him, but who by far cares more seems quite obvious to me. From what I've gathered, his case is a run-of-the-mill type of story where she was friends for him for a year or two before they got together, chased him, got commitment from him, and now the tables have been turned.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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