Skydiver43127
Senior Don Juan
Remember Gump? "Stupid is who stupid does". What's so smart about losing the girl because you can't stop yourself from saying a damn word?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
yeah i've downloaded many expensive ebooks but never paid for one of them...it feels weierd to pay for some binary digits. IMO you should reduce your price, it's an ebook not a real book. i like your style so maybe i order it anyway but think about it....or hows the selling going?Originally posted by Mr. Non-Juan
Greetings, Double!
How much does my e-Book cost? Let me ask YOU a question: are you ready to take out a second mortgage?
:crackup: HA HA! Just kidding!
Ever heard of Doc Love? His dating dictionary cost $99 - that, to me, is ridiculous!! I want guys to get my information AND be able to afford it as well! For that reason, I've made sure my 135-Page e-Book is affordable to the average consumer!
Plus, I also throw in a special 45-{age e-BONUS BOOK at no extra cost that gives guys even MORE info!
But I could talk about it here all day and fill up a page, so stop by my website - www.nonjuanworld.blogspot.com - for all the information you need! (You can also get the book here, and read the first chapter from it for FREE!)
-Mr. Non-Juan
...:crackup: HA HA HA HA!! Wow, you crack me up again!yeah i've downloaded many expensive ebooks but never paid for one of them...it feels weierd to pay for some binary digits. IMO you should reduce your price, it's an ebook not a real book. i like your style so maybe i order it anyway but think about it....or hows the selling going?
No .. not necessarily and many cases no. The woman herself has to be intelligent to recognize and appreciate intelligence in another person.HBs look for man with social status and intelligence
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.