"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Non Biased Guide On Flirting

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If, on the other hand, your target avoids making eye contact with you, or looks away after a fraction of a second and does not look back again, you should probably assume that your interest is not returned.
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Although I have tried everything under the sun to improve my looks, the above still happens to me 99.9% of the time.

The door slams shut and it's Game Over right there. The rest of the article doesn't even come into the picture.

In a way, the article is proving that looks do matter because everything starts with eye-contacts that get initiated based solely on looks. If you are generally considered attractive and good-looking, you will get more eye-contacts returned back to you. And, if you get the eye-contact returned back, you know there is enough interest for you to start the flirting and seduction game.

But.. if you don't get eye-contacts, what do you do except curse The Mofo Above for giving you an unattractive face and body?
 

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Heh, finally finished reading all of the guide, thoroughly with no speed reading. A very enjoyable read as the views are consistent with my experience. It's nice to be able to think back to past field work and remember these concepts in action.
 

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Very comprehensive...
most arguments backed up convincingly
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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