"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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stringpuller said:
Young man there are therapists who are available and will gladly listen to your ongoing thinking and perhaps help.
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I advised him therapy/counselling in PM. He said it wouldn’t help. He’s never tried it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bro, this forum is full of helpful people and advices. Use them.
DJ Bible, The Book of Pook, Weapons of Mass Seductions... Use them!

You think your situation is unique? Nope, it's not.
Almost all of us have been there, and a few guys took their precious time to write books and articles on how to handle this situation. USE THEM!
 
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