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People are so quick to call No Contact on so many different situations. You guys do realize that women have friends, and while you might have just failed miserably with this one chick she has a social circle you can be a part of and also meet new women. Not to mention that fact that you will at times be out with this girl and she can be a very good wingman simply because your showing preselection by being around her. Worst case shes already told her friends what a chump you are. Then it becomes a clear cut NC.

When you crash and burn realize there's always something to salvage. Being in the friendzone of an attractive woman actually has a plus side. I am not advocating you continue to act like a beta-moron, but realize it can be used.
 
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What the f*ck did I just read.

Life Pro Tip #17

If she wants to be your wing woman after you two dated, your game needs MASSIVE work.
 
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BeginningDJ said:
What the f*ck did I just read.

Life Pro Tip #17

If she wants to be your wing woman after you two dated, your game needs MASSIVE work.
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I'm guessing you have no female friends?

When a woman wings for you she doesn't need to be like a guy wingman. An attractive female will wing you just by interacting with you when your in a social environment, where all the other women in the venue/place are watching for signs of attractive qualities. Pre-selection is one of these qualities.
 
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I think you miss understood, he didn't mean as an actual wingman but that they automatically help your game because it displays higher value when you are out with a cute girl.

No better start to a night than walking in a bar and having 3-4 girls come straight up to you, each one with a hug/kiss (usually an ex's friends). EVERYONE else sees and you feel like anybody in that bar could be yours instantly.
 
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Kbomb said:
People are so quick to call No Contact on so many different situations. You guys do realize that women have friends, and while you might have just failed miserably with this one chick she has a social circle you can be a part of and also meet new women. Not to mention that fact that you will at times be out with this girl and she can be a very good wingman simply because your showing preselection by being around her. Worst case shes already told her friends what a chump you are. Then it becomes a clear cut NC.

When you crash and burn realize there's always something to salvage. Being in the friendzone of an attractive woman actually has a plus side. I am not advocating you continue to act like a beta-moron, but realize it can be used.
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I like it, your keeping is possitive :up: . I agree from every fvck up that happens in your life you learn from it. But people do miss the point of No Contact. IF you have a oneitis/love/sob bs then yes No contact is for you!

But people using it to go NC on a girl they went on one date with because she took 15 minutes to answer a text/phone call is the dumbest use yet. However using it as punishment for her doing something bad, is a good thing

People think its some silver bullet and theyll have to put in less to no work to forget/get the girl they want simply by ignoring. Life wasnt built that way.

But I agree, having female friends is a good thing. I have a couple who throw some banging parties, actaully going to one tonight, and i went out with her one night and she winged for me in the club and I pulled some hotties and had a good time (excuse the run on sentence gents!).

Main point : think positive, be positive
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Friend: So how do you know Kbomb?
Chick: We went out a few times
Friend: What happened?
Chick: [Excuse that will not help your game]

Women will make themselves look better in their social circle. The problem things didn't work will ALWAYS be on you. Of course, you aren't going to be a butthurt chump and make it awkward when you run into her again. However, lingering around and thinking she will hook you up with one of her friends is just dumb - unless you're into fat /ugly chicks.

I'd rather spend time with girls who have yet to reject my advances.
 
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BeginningDJ said:
Friend: So how do you know Kbomb?
Chick: We went out a few times
Friend: What happened?
Chick: [Excuse that will not help your game]

Women will make themselves look better in their social circle. The problem things didn't work will ALWAYS be on you. Of course, you aren't going to be a butthurt chump and make it awkward when you run into her again. However, lingering around and thinking she will hook you up with one of her friends is just dumb - unless you're into fat /ugly chicks.

I'd rather spend time with girls who have yet to reject my advances.
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Wow, its like you know everything.
 
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