Now as a proponent of day game myself, there's a certain part of me that on occasion itches, almost like a mosquito bite, and the only soothing cure is the night life scene.
I don't know why it's so captivating to me - maybe it's the hot brunette in the skin tight halter top delicately hiding her massive cleavage, or the fact the grass is always greener and it's a nice change of pace from gathering numbers from the malls.
I think it's important for a player to broaden his horizons and interact with women on many different levels: bars, malls, clubs, etc. You have to constantly stay ahead of the game. I'd like to compare it to a neurologist, continuing to further his education even after receiving a Ph.D in their field.
So let's dissect the scenarios and logistics of the bars/clubs:
Girls Night Out
AKA "Man Hating Mission". These girls are very easy to spot. They're usually in groves of 4+, have boyfriends and do a very poor job (at least to me) of disguising it. Will usually refuse any approach, and typically want nothing to do with any guy in the joint, while acting jovial as they suck down their Pinot Grigio over light conversation about a fight they're having with their new boy toy. They have a bitter attitude because of the drunk frat guys stumbling about, yet they voluntarily have placed themselves in this kind of environment! Completely irrational. These are the girls you want to avoid, like the plague. They're usually all on an equal playing field looks wise.
Best Friends
The two cute girls that walk in together. A much more common scenario. Unfortunately, this situation can be almost as tricky. First off, you have to remember when you see two girls together they are usually very close friends, or sisters. Two random girls just don't walk into a bar together. From my experience, it's the former and they're both single. The problem is misery loves company and at one point or another, the one not receiving the attention will c0ck block, or much more commonly the one you're actually talking to will feel bad her friend is feeling left out and won't give you much to work with. Forget what you've heard about girls backstabbing each other. Girls can stick very close to each other, especially in the night life scene.
The Hottie with the Notties
Now we're in business. If you play your cards right, this is a situation you can work to your advantage. When I see a hottie surrounded by a few of her not-so attractive friends, it tells me a few things. Number one: She's insecure. Being around girls who are visually not as appetizing gives her more confidence, and tells me she doesn't mind if her friends don't get the attention. Typically these girls aren't very close friends, and have a "fend for themselves" type attitude. My advice (contrary to popular belief) is hone in on the hottie. Don't try to divide the attention up, it isn't necessary. She doesn't give a rat's ass about her unattractive pawns.
Those are usually the groups we all encounter in our quest for some late night action. I was going to write more, but I suddenly feel like making a sandwich.
I don't know why it's so captivating to me - maybe it's the hot brunette in the skin tight halter top delicately hiding her massive cleavage, or the fact the grass is always greener and it's a nice change of pace from gathering numbers from the malls.
I think it's important for a player to broaden his horizons and interact with women on many different levels: bars, malls, clubs, etc. You have to constantly stay ahead of the game. I'd like to compare it to a neurologist, continuing to further his education even after receiving a Ph.D in their field.
So let's dissect the scenarios and logistics of the bars/clubs:
Girls Night Out
AKA "Man Hating Mission". These girls are very easy to spot. They're usually in groves of 4+, have boyfriends and do a very poor job (at least to me) of disguising it. Will usually refuse any approach, and typically want nothing to do with any guy in the joint, while acting jovial as they suck down their Pinot Grigio over light conversation about a fight they're having with their new boy toy. They have a bitter attitude because of the drunk frat guys stumbling about, yet they voluntarily have placed themselves in this kind of environment! Completely irrational. These are the girls you want to avoid, like the plague. They're usually all on an equal playing field looks wise.
Best Friends
The two cute girls that walk in together. A much more common scenario. Unfortunately, this situation can be almost as tricky. First off, you have to remember when you see two girls together they are usually very close friends, or sisters. Two random girls just don't walk into a bar together. From my experience, it's the former and they're both single. The problem is misery loves company and at one point or another, the one not receiving the attention will c0ck block, or much more commonly the one you're actually talking to will feel bad her friend is feeling left out and won't give you much to work with. Forget what you've heard about girls backstabbing each other. Girls can stick very close to each other, especially in the night life scene.
The Hottie with the Notties
Now we're in business. If you play your cards right, this is a situation you can work to your advantage. When I see a hottie surrounded by a few of her not-so attractive friends, it tells me a few things. Number one: She's insecure. Being around girls who are visually not as appetizing gives her more confidence, and tells me she doesn't mind if her friends don't get the attention. Typically these girls aren't very close friends, and have a "fend for themselves" type attitude. My advice (contrary to popular belief) is hone in on the hottie. Don't try to divide the attention up, it isn't necessary. She doesn't give a rat's ass about her unattractive pawns.
Those are usually the groups we all encounter in our quest for some late night action. I was going to write more, but I suddenly feel like making a sandwich.
