"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

"the nice guy" is marriage material

00Kevin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,962
Reaction score
21
Location
toronto
a girl I know told me that women end up marrying nice guys.

I just laughed at her and told her that every woman only thinks she married a nice guy.

The funny thing is she currently has an AFC all over her. She has dated this guy off and on for the past 5 years. She recently left him (most likely as a result of my DJing). This girl still can't make up her mind. This guy has cried his eyes out to her and did everything else AFCish in the book. What a whimp. What an AFC. I feel sorry for him. In fact, I told her to tell him that he needs to grow up and learn what it means to be a man. For his sake I can only hope that she told him. Imagine being an AFC and hearing those words from a woman. :) ouch... I can only hope that he wakes the f-uck up.


The joke about all of this that she doesn't want to make a solid commtment to a nice guy. Sounds like female double speak to me.

Anyway, the real joke is that I've already played with her tities and now she wants to have sex with me. She even told me that she might start to beg me for sex soon.

anyway.. a man has got to do what a man has got to do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Rollo Tomassi

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 4, 2004
Messages
5,307
Reaction score
343
Age
58
Location
Nevada
Let me guess, between the age of 22 and 26, right?

Oh, she'll end up marrying a guy like this,..as soon as she's had enough fvcking from guys that work her and put her in her place often enough. It's AFCs like this who'll jump at the chance to support her and adopt her illegitimate children from the 'bad boys' she did want to fvck in her 20s once they think she's finally 'come around' and really has feelings for him.
 

DJDamage

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2004
Messages
5,657
Reaction score
104
Location
Canada
When women reach the age of 30 and up their looks start to fade and they are not so sought after, hance their standerds will go down and the AFC nice guy all of the sudden becomes acceptable to date and marry.
 

darthsidious

Banned
Joined
May 25, 2005
Messages
168
Reaction score
1
Location
DeathStar
^^^^^

agreed!

that's why you see hot chicks with dweebs/nerds that will never run away from them only because these hot chicks are f ucked in the head and that no real man would ever want to marry one but an afc would.

so you think the afc route is good even if you have to wait in your 30s?

no, because you're having leftovers. you'll be dating wounded women who either will 1. call you constantly 2. acting pessimistically all the time 3. ugly

what do real men do? they date younger women who haven't been damaged yet.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Originally posted by DJDamage
When women reach the age of 30 and up their looks start to fade and they are not so sought after, hance their standerds will go down and the AFC nice guy all of the sudden becomes acceptable to date and marry.
You guys must live someplace where you start going downhill once you hit 25 or so. Too bad.... Your lives must suck to not be able to find any sexy women in their 30s. You should get out and about more often... Either that or become Monks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Unregistered

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 9, 2003
Messages
546
Reaction score
3
I don't want to be "marriage material". I want to be "monkey-love material".
 

DJDamage

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2004
Messages
5,657
Reaction score
104
Location
Canada
Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
You guys must live someplace where you start going downhill once you hit 25 or so. Too bad.... Your lives must suck to not be able to find any sexy women in their 30s. You should get out and about more often... Either that or become Monks.
I never said downhill but when a woman passes the age of 30 her looks slowly fade away. It does not mean she can not be sexy at the age of 35 or even 45 (that is where my limit is). However as she ages you cannot compare her when she was in her 20's

Would you rather be with Sharon Stone when she did Basic Instinct or be with the current Sharon Stone??? There is a big difference, it is not the same woman in terms of vitality and youthfulness and overall looks.
 

00Kevin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,962
Reaction score
21
Location
toronto
Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Let me guess, between the age of 22 and 26, right?

Oh, she'll end up marrying a guy like this,..as soon as she's had enough fvcking from guys that work her and put her in her place often enough. It's AFCs like this who'll jump at the chance to support her and adopt her illegitimate children from the 'bad boys' she did want to fvck in her 20s once they think she's finally 'come around' and really has feelings for him.
actually, she keeps trying to tell me that she has only had one hand count of guys. ( that means that she has only had sex with 5 guys. )

She was worried that I would make it two hands. I guess if I do she won't think much of filling the remaining 4 slots.

this girl is about 28 or so.. I don't even remember her exact age :)

but you are correct she will start to cry her eyes out when she is older and in her 30s.

The way I see it a woman should have to pay for all the fun she had when she was young. Given the fact that I had to learn the hard way about girls and their little "fun" phase. I really don't care how much they cry about it. I think they deserve it for all the **** they have put the good guys through. They can be childless and be fat and ugly. I really don't care.
 
Joined
Nov 6, 2003
Messages
4,280
Reaction score
8
Location
Wisconsin. USA
she is a low-life hor -- respect her as such!!! C@M in her eye-balls and make her go blind!!!!!
 

Bonhomme

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2002
Messages
3,956
Reaction score
16
Location
Land of the Ruins
Damn

I'm bummed that darthsidious dropped his Star Wars Sith shtick.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

00Kevin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,962
Reaction score
21
Location
toronto
Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
she is a low-life hor -- respect her as such!!! C@M in her eye-balls and make her go blind!!!!!
actually, she would allow a guy to *** on her face. I've already had that conversation with her.
 
Top