"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The next time you hug a girl...

Jon55

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Next time you hug a girl, make sure to lift her in the air. Spice it and spin around too if you want. I have no idea why, but everytime I do this its like a rollercoaster ride for them, and they love it. By the time I put them back down they usually give me a big smile while looking deep in my eyes.


Prolly won't get you laid, but I just thought I'd throw that out there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BxPrince24

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that's considering you have a girl that's easy to pick up.... lol

If the girl's heavy you might end up squeezing her a little too much to get her off the ground. And i'm not talking about fat chicks, just girls who are sexy thick and not light, like the girl i'm trying to hook up with now :).
 

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Yeah my girl is 5'9 and I'm 6'1 and I have trouble lifting her up, unless I want to crush her with a bear hug haha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigappledj

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You guys just like them fatties. You like a little of dat junk in da trunk! Ain't hating ya, but ya do. Hear me?

Seeing how ripped and strong I am I like to take a girl and lift her up in the air by her a**. That forces her to grab onto my massive chest. This is the best kino there is. So ya keep twirling dem girls.
 

BxPrince24

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bigappledj said:
You guys just like them fatties. You like a little of dat junk in da trunk! Ain't hating ya, but ya do. Hear me?

Seeing how ripped and strong I am I like to take a girl and lift her up in the air by her a**. That forces her to grab onto my massive chest. This is the best kino there is. So ya keep twirling dem girls.
that's a different story now, if you're gonna pick a girl up by her ass that ain't no problem but if she's heavy and you're hugging her, to pick her up, you'd have to give her a bear hug lol.

I mean, I can pick up almost anyone my weight and even more than that without much problem. I weigh around 230lbs and I've picked up my cuz who weighs close to 300lbs without a problem just to see if i could lift him.

And the girl i'm dating isn't fat at all. She's black so she's got great curves with a small waist, but she ain't light lol.
 

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Jon55 said:
Next time you hug a girl, make sure to lift her in the air. Spice it and spin around too if you want. I have no idea why, but everytime I do this its like a rollercoaster ride for them, and they love it. By the time I put them back down they usually give me a big smile while looking deep in my eyes.


Prolly won't get you laid, but I just thought I'd throw that out there.
Good point....not only is it a good size/weight litmus test Jon55 is right that women dig it. I don't have a clue why either but it works like a charm...
 

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bigappledj said:
You guys just like them fatties. You like a little of dat junk in da trunk! Ain't hating ya, but ya do. Hear me?

Seeing how ripped and strong I am I like to take a girl and lift her up in the air by her a**. That forces her to grab onto my massive chest. This is the best kino there is. So ya keep twirling dem girls.
im lost on this one. why would they grab your chest? wouldnt they be bent over your shoulder or something?
 
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