"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi guys.. Im new here... Need som kind of advices...

I was on this birthday party for 2 days ago, and i met a girl.. around a i guess 7,5-8. We talked together, and she told me that she we travveling with som friends to Spain soon.. But they didnt found any hotels etc.. cause they ment its was expensive.. so i told her that i could found that for her.. so that how i get her phone nr... I had some feeling that she likes me, cause when we talked, she asked me questions.. not just me to her...so i guess se she like me ;) but its too soon to say...

Im really interested in this girl, and i want definilty know her better.. she's worth... Today, i asked her about her email, and she gave me via the phone mobile.. And we met on MSN messenger after 5 mins.. We talked.. Asked her what she did today etc... But its weird cause im trying to ask her question to know her better.. and she always abswer me and then ask me new questions.. its maybe a good sign, but its weird ;\

We didnt talked to long cause she was visitig a friend.. She ended the discution saying that se has to go etc.. and hopes to see each other later on.. and i say that uim waiting for her to contact me ;) Se says (i dont remeber well) hehe, ok...

Summary: I like this girl verymuch... i found that she doesnt party a lot.. maybe 1 time every month ;\.. so she likes to swim etc...


So guys, what should i do next? Call her and see each other? Or what? What should be good to do now?

Thanks a lot by the way!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hello man.

I believe you are in a good situation. She seems like she is interested in you, but you need to stop trying hard. If you chase her, she would run away. Instead attract her.

Stop chatting with her via msn because it shows her that you don’t have a life, and you are interesting. BAD.
Call her after two days and ask her out. What are you going to loose. NOTHING.
Seduce other chicks. Take as many digits as you can till you cant handle it.

Hope it helps.
Good luck
 

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Hi jama... thanks dude... Really appriciate your reply!


Mhm... i will call her in 2-3 days if she does not contact me tomorow or later..

You write that i need to attract her? How you do that?
The thing is that i dont want to push to hard as you said..
 

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It is not that difficult, how to attract women, when you understand what is going on. The best advice that I can give you is: To surf this websites and read all the articles till you get it.

www.sosuave.com

www.becomeaplayer.com

www.askmen.com

Also you can go GOOGLE and write: Dating Wizard Michael W…..my favorite or Dating Dynamics Carlos Xuma.

It’s very helpful. They know what they are talking about.

It will help for sure.

Hope helps.

Good luck
 
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The only thing you have to do to 'attract' a woman is be a man!!! There is an already inbred desire for man and woman to meet, but this attraction must be nurtured if it is to flourish into a relationship.

Besides men who possess intelligence, a sense of humor and are an overall fun guy, women seek men with certain ‘character’ traits and qualities, such as...

Men who have financial means to support them and their children.

Men whose values that are aligned with hers for compatibility purposes

Men who are responsible - most women will flee from men on drugs, and/or gamblers..

Men who have a protective nature and who are assertive - women avoid ‘submissive’ men, this trait is not in sync with a man’s nature.

Men who are a sound decision maker – shows sound reasoning. Women fear irrational behavior in men.

Men who show concern for her welfare, one exhibits generosity.


A man’s ‘masculinity’ and ‘sexuality’ possesses these traits, in the eyes of a woman, and her desire for you will be long lasting and not just for a moment’s pleasure.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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