SeymourCake
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Colossus said:More cooked "stats", victimology, and shock/shaming ads to keep things fresh.
Women are, by and large, idiots. We've just developed a culture where no one can tell them so without consequences.
She's great, I've seen her speak in person.SeymourCake said:Not all women are idiots. Take this one for example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1oqyrflOQFc
LinkMeet the teen girl who sleeps with men to pay for hitchhike across China
ANI | London
October 28, 2014 Last Updated at 11:57 IST
A teenager from Shanghai is funding her trip across China by sleeping with men in every city she stops in.
Ju Peng posted an ad to Chinese microblogging site Weibo looking for 'temporary boyfriends', who must be 'good looking, under 30, taller than 1.75 metres and rich, the Mirror reported.
She said that her "boyfriends" will fund her transport to their city and all her expenses while she is there and in return they would get a whole night with her, her undivided attention and chance to show themselves off in the company of a truly beautiful girl.
The 19-year-old, who has been slammed for her unconventional method, has already travelled all over eastern China by bedding men method and wants to see the rest of the country, but does not have enough money to fund it herself.
Ju has also said that her method is sort of like hitchhiking and its nothing to be ashamed of.
This is also the case with the civil rights movement.SeymourCake said:Not all women are idiots. Take this one for example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1oqyrflOQFc
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do you agree with her assessment that "women's emancipation" is one of the greatest triumphs of the Western Civilization?Colossus said:She's great, I've seen her speak in person.
She does go there, but I think it's understandable. She is trying to reach a mass audience who is so conditioned to the lies that if she offers them nothing but cognitive dissonance, they will ignore her message entirely. Other than the "feminism was worthy in the past" claim, she's truly one of the good ones.Bokanovsky said:Do you agree with her assessment that "women's emancipation" is one of the greatest triumphs of the Western Civilization?
What's the job scene like for US professionals in Korea? Anyone know? LOL.LiveFreeX said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Cathedralyte rabbits protesting against PUA's now? :crackup:jimmy18 said:
From 1st action to the 3rd action in just what 10 or so years?First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.