"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Newbies At The Gym This Time Of Year Drive Me Crazy

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So many New Years Resolutioners at the gyms every January, only to quit by February.

The sad part is that with so many of them flooding the gyms it makes it tougher for us regular workout people to get in a workout and it's tougher for them as well. I'm sure they get discouraged at well waiting at the gym and it takes twice as long to fit in a workout.

I hate January at the gym.

The only solution that I've found is to go in at the times when noone else goes like early in the morning.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yep.
 
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I know exactly what you mean...there are SO many people at my gym is quite frankly pissing me off!

I hope your right and they all do quit by February... I can't wait much longer than that!
 
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Kinda glad I've been sick lately.
 
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I know. The liberal viewpoint would be, hey remember you used to be a beginner two, but even when I was a beginner I didn't wait for it to be a New Years resolution. Hah, I started in summer.

And the bad part is it only brings in a few more nice looking girls.

More of them aren't good and alot of fat dudes taking up space too LOL
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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One of those goddamn resolution MFers told me to keep my back strait during T-bar rows.... oh my god I was pissed.
 
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LOL :D



Originally posted by Ricky
I know. The liberal viewpoint would be, hey remember you used to be a beginner two, but even when I was a beginner I didn't wait for it to be a New Years resolution. Hah, I started in summer.

And the bad part is it only brings in a few more nice looking girls.

More of them aren't good and alot of fat dudes taking up space too LOL
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I hear ya. Luckily I'm back at college in a week and I go to a small school so it never gets too crowded. It's so freaking obvious these people are gonna quit in a month that they get hardly any benefit.
 
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For me it's not just new year's, but the start of each semester. It's funny though, I guess since people "dedicate themselves to lifting" twice a year, they only come for about 2 weeks before quitting.

Always keep your eyes open for the hapless lady who might need a hand...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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