"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the new_hotness journal: magic carpet ride

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I've been a hermit much of the summer. Just working out, getting into shape, then resting up. Now, I'm back in the game (somewhat), so here's a journal of my progress.

Any fellow travelers are free to comment in this travel log. :)

Wed. August 25:

Went to a class today: not too big, not too small, about 40 people.

A girl opened me immediately, as soon as the class started.

I walk in looking for an open chair in an apparently full class. She spots me, immediately pulls up a chair for me to sit next to her, and also offers her desk to share as well.

I think one mistake I made was instead of chatting her up when the opportunity presented, I scanned for some additional hotties. I wasn't quite focused on her.

She did chat me up again maybe four or five times after she opened me, so the interest is certainly there. She would usually do this after some other guy tried to talk to her.

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I think I ran into the hot girl I saw a couple of days ago. She was staring at me blatantly the other day for quite some time, without making any attempt to hide what she was doing. It was almost animalistic, very raw.

I guess it was her: about the same height and weight, and I guess same facial features? We didn't talk the other day, and I didn't stare back; so I'm not sure.

Anyway, she's crazy hot. We were face to face at break, and she just sort of froze and stopped, kind of stupefied. I didn't say or do anything either.

I have to admit, I have been a bit of a hermit the past few weeks, focusing on exercise and recovery and that's just about it.

Hopefully I can come out of my shell a bit.

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Forgot: there's a third girl I'm working on. She's a shortie and very, very cute. She is just as shy as she is cute, which is very.

I tried talking to her, and all she can muster right now is to agree: "yeah" and then burst out in giggles.

She seems really comfortable talking to people, as long as they are girls. Talking to guys seems to be a stretch for her. She seems like a really cool girl, but just shy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thurs. August 26:

I went to another class today. The same thing happened as yesterday.

This time, I arrive early. Still, I get opened by another cute girl.

A girl arrives late, seats herself next to me. Then she says to me: "I'm going to look at yours..." meaning the handout sheets I have.

So, basically, I'm getting opened by girls in every new class I sit in on.

This is how spoiled I am: the girls approaching me in the '7' range and I can't even be bothered to pay any attention to them: I'm only scheming to hook up with girls in the 8+ range because they're more of a challenge!

I have true abundance though, if I want to reach out and take it.

The thing is, I don't know how long I'll be taking these classes. Basically I want to take one or two for fun and personal interest, only.

edit: like someone else said, I'm noticing girls checking me out throughout the day now. They check you out when you are not checking them out for the most part. They try to sneak it in on you.
 

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No girls approached me/opened me in class today.

Oh yes, one "girl" did. But she was about 60, so that doesn't count, lol.

It's a fitness class. It was a bit of a letdown as far as hb's are concerned: lots of fat girls in the class. Lots of middle aged and older types.

Friendly people, but nothing there as far as attractive girls.
 

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Four classes in four days, and I've been approached by girls in each one.

Yet, I still feel hesitant about gaming in this environment.

Maybe I shouldn't think about it as "game" at all, but being a normal social person. Innovative idea, huh?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ooh, I didn't know this thread existed when I replied to your other about how hot you are.

Serious question - are you just trying to wind up Just A Shot Away? somehow to prove for once and for all that looks matter? ;)
 

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Back in class, class is nearly empty. Another girl approaches/proximity by sitting next to me. This girl is too shy to start up conversation through.

There are two hot girls I'd like to approach, but one is too shy to even leave class during break. The other sticks to her girlfriend like glue and disappears during break.

Kind of an odd situation where girls I'm a bit less attracted to are opening me, and the girls I want to talk to are not available to talk to. :p
 

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this isn't a journal, it's a disgrace.

Spit some fvcking game, man.
 

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I've gotten more passive in my game, I admit.

I'm used to hot girls grabbing me by the arm in clubs and grinding me and inviting me to grope them, or taking me by the hand back to their car so I can have sex with them, or telling me where they live so we can go have sex.

I'm spoiled!
 

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I got laid last night/this morning.

Walked into a bar looking for my friend and some skinny blonde with a bubble butt starts chatting me up as I walk by. I ask her what she's doing at the bar, and she says she's looking to ****. I walk her out of there and we **** inside her SUV in a dark parking lot.

I can't remember her name: actually I don't think she ever told me. I didn't get her number either.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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