"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The new "Rules" for women

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zarky

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eh, I don't see the big issue with it. The only women I've ever met who even heard of The Rules thought they were stupid.

Except for this, which p*ssed me off:

Men love a challenge
These women call themselves feminists, but that's blatant sexism. Any time you lump all members of one gender together and assign a single attribute to all of them, it's sexist.

If I said "Women love to clean toilets" that would be incorrect and sexist. When women say "All men [do X]" it's sexist and shame on them, they should know better.
 
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They never define the goals of women NOR do they ever define what a GOOD MAN wants and cater to their needs.

I think this is funny.

If women want the ideal man, they should be the ideal women...but shhh we don't talk about what women should change about themselves! Ever wondered why?

Women...just be more passive...that's the advice, pretty lame.

"Q. What advice would you give to a woman who says: “I’ve followed your Rules to a tee for a year, and I’m still single — what’s up with that?”

Sherrie: We’d say that you haven’t met your Mr. Right yet. A year is really not that long — and you’re screening out plenty of Mr. Wrongs, so pat yourself on the back for that. There’s nothing wrong with being single; just don’t stop trying to meet someone just yet. Have you stopped going out on dates? Have you taken down your online profile prematurely? Are you worried that other people will see it? Too bad! You’re single, and how else are you going to meet available men? Get back in the game, or stay in the game and keep trying. You have to be in it to win it. Following The Rules and Not Your Mother’s Rules is only half the story; you have to stay active online and get out there in real life in order to meet men that you can practice the Rules on. Never give up! "

How about be a lady that men want to date? Women say men as simple, so why not actually DO something that MEN WANT!

This advice is just pandering to the audience. Women would never buy advice which told them to get in shape, be nice to a man, give him a blow job, make him dinner, give him a massage, actively listen to him, enjoy his company, etc. Naw! Too much work. You just haven't found the right man yet! Ha, as if he's just going to show up, that prince. Bah! That prince found himself a princess in someone else!
 

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Men love a challenge, and they like women who are busy having a life of their own and who don’t make everything about them in the early stages of dating.
that is what women want a busy man who has his life .
all women articles books about dating is BS .
 
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