"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Eternal

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I'm up for it.

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What's going on with this? What hasn't Mr. Debonaire updated us about our objectives through this? Or what were doing? This thread died fast.

Someone tell me what's going on with this. Or if this is going anywhere.
 

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ya, it did die fast.

sorry about my long leave of absense, but i've been out enjoying life and living it to the fullest.

so ya, mostly working :rolleyes:

I'm going to try to get the ball rolling on all this again in the next few days

cheers lads

-deb
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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erm....

Originally posted by n00bPimp
I guess i'll join. Is there like a fee i gotta pay?
LOL!:D no man... no fee:p


Laterz...
 

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Re: erm....

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
LOL!:D no man... no fee:p
thats my decision.....

cash will be fine. small bills only please
 

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I've been around since '02... So I figure I could pass on some knowledge... AIM: xxxander007.
Cheers.
 

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Well guys, I got this up on my site...Just needs some people. Just sign up on my site and PM me with your name on here. I'll set you up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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three cheers for eternal, your a god among men :)

remember tho guys, this is elite only. don't show up if your not experienced, or you may get booed off the stage.

love deb
 

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is this thing still going

i didnt get an IM or anything
 

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i guess i'am in, ive been in this forum for quite a time and i believe i could do the best i can to help improve the lives of others any myself.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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