the new don juan crew

[Layla]

I'm in im always up for a chat. I've read so much on this site and ive also done some things in the field. I may not be THAT advanced, but im always up for a chat

AIM- holysitt89

 

[undesputable]

Ill apply... Ill post my sn when i find out if im in or not.

 

[CableLight]

Originally posted by undesputable
Ill apply... Ill post my sn when i find out if im in or not.

Same.

 

[souporman]

lets set up a time for a chatroom where we can all meet and discuss the weeks events...

And Mr. debo.. whats your sn?

 

[October]

Sup, I'll apply. This is a really good idea.

 

[WesCottII]

*sigh*

I'll join. I used to be Jonny football Hero btw.

 

[FL BOY]

just an idea for u ladies....

At the same time since only "true don juans" who completely understand the techniques and mindset of gettin girls at will, why not make a crew for peeps who are in the middle stages of this. Not a newbie or someone who just says bs, and not a "true don juan" this would help people share similiar storys and help us out.

 

[Void]

When's this going to start? I'm psyched about it.

 

[souporman]

Re: just an idea for u ladies....

Originally posted by FL BOY
At the same time since only "true don juans" who completely understand the techniques and mindset of gettin girls at will, why not make a crew for peeps who are in the middle stages of this. Not a newbie or someone who just says bs, and not a "true don juan" this would help people share similiar storys and help us out.

I agree with not having newbies... but having experienced djs is important. They'll be able to give more advice, and even though they might not have many fallouts right now... they definatly did in the past.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

No one is great as a teenager. **** talking about the entire history of being here, In the PAST WEEK I've returned to Sosuave, some of the posters I have looked up to have had big problems in their seduction lives or realised that they weren't becoming the person they want to be. They are only human. You guys make out the old posters to be God-like and constantly wish for the way things were. Life is a cycle. Every board I've been to (rapping, dancing, seduction, etc) has experienced the same thing. The beginning was mostly poster who posted to teach, while nowadays posters talk only to learn....sh!t changes. Im sure you wouldn't be where you are now if the masses left to form their own exclusive group like some immature child crying over the way things were. Some of the 'experienced' posters aren't that experienced either. I know, the newbies get irritating after a while, but you can at least try and help every now and then.

On the other hand, go ahead make an "exclusive group" for experienced posters only. It has happened time and time again, I know what'll happen... you'll either get so caught up in posting that you won't get any seduction done, or B) You actual get where you want to get seduction wise and can't be arsed to come online and talk to others...which is probably for the better


Just Don't call yourself Don Juan's anymore...if you don't want to be a part of us, why should we be a part of you?

 

[NotaGoatLover]

....talk about negative thinking...........

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Originally posted by NotaGoatLover
....talk about negative thinking...........

What part of the concept do you not understand. With the great posters gone, who will tell others when someone gives bad ideas? Who will point newbies to the Don Juan bible? Who will tell people to stick in there when things get hard? Who will relate to a certain situation and give insight on what worked for them?

Sometimes I wonder why I help people like you because you're so quick to kiss someone's ass you don't stop and think about the possibilities

 

[coolguy676767]

Well I know I know that some people will get mad at the newbies, if only the true djs, form a group then what will it matter cause they are somewhat close to where they need to be, I would say you create a group with anyone who wants to be in it, and then give newbies like myself a kind of internship, where if we get annoying you just cut us out of the group while the newbies will get a better chance at learning from the more experienced ones.

 

[NotaGoatLover]

well....this forum is full of noobies............. masf is the way to go......

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Originally posted by coolguy676767
Well I know I know that some people will get mad at the newbies, if only the true djs, form a group then what will it matter cause they are somewhat close to where they need to be, I would say you create a group with anyone who wants to be in it, and then give newbies like myself a kind of internship, where if we get annoying you just cut us out of the group while the newbies will get a better chance at learning from the more experienced ones.

Will you stop thinking about yourself and think about others. What about people that are new to this and are rejected? What are they going to do? Lets say you don't even get into the group because u suck with ladies...so they say "Er...we'll let you and you in but coolguy676767 you just aint up to our level of game, good luck trying to get there with no one to teach you!!!" Then how would you feel?

The people at SoSuave come to be helped and then later on they can help others...If you think you need a new website to do that...then good-bye. What kind of greedy inconsiderate person makes their own website because they don't want to help others? What kind of egotistic bastard does that? I could understand if you were leaving because you are tired of using an online forum as a crutch in your game...but you are merely creating and entirely new crutch...wtf?

In this thread I've seen people complain about newbies posting too much and newbies that they don't hear enough from? Get your arguements straight fellas

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Originally posted by NotaGoatLover
well....this forum is full of noobies............. masf is the way to go......

Is this the part where I beg you to stay? You want to leave? Adios...have fun....good luck

 

[souporman]

Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
What part of the concept do you not understand. With the great posters gone, who will tell others when someone gives bad ideas? Who will point newbies to the Don Juan bible? Who will tell people to stick in there when things get hard? Who will relate to a certain situation and give insight on what worked for them?

Sometimes I wonder why I help people like you because you're so quick to kiss someone's ass you don't stop and think about the possibilities

Damn dude... chilll. While there are parts of your post that i find realistic, alot of it just isnt going to happen.

First of all... just because we are meeting together to talk doesnt mean that we're going to completely isolate ourselves from sosuave... I'll gladly come here because it still means something to me to teach new kids some of the art.

The reason we are getting a group of people that have a little experience is so that we can learn... You said that the original djs came here and taught. Well, let me ask you this... how could they have taught if they didnt learn?

You should never stop learning, man, and thats what we're trying to do.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Whilst the original poster states that it would be an en vivo So Suave thing, others have asked for it to be away from this thread.


When will people realise you don't get better talking to some online friend... you get better by going out in the the real world and allowing the field to teach you?

You guys are taking the egotistic approach when you should be taking the utilitarian approach (most happiness for the most amount of people) What happens if you make a thread here as opposed to in some super duper top secrety forum? A couple newbies say something irrelevant? Whoop di fvking do Basil. Think about how much people can say "Yes I relate to that" or just think about it in their head. All those people you are stunting their growth by not discussing anything with substance anymore @ SoSuave.

 

[souporman]

Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
Whilst the original poster states that it would be an en vivo So Suave thing, others have asked for it to be away from this thread.


When will people realise you don't get better talking to some online friend... you get better by going out in the the real world and allowing the field to teach you?

I agree that it is good to go out and get field experience... but often it can be hard to learn from your mistakes without guidance...

In fact, you were just supporting the newbies, saying we should help them out when they come to us. Now it seems like you are saying that talking to people is useless and that whatever we say it wont help another person.

I know there are a few people that have helped me find out things that would have taken me alot of time to work out before.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Talking to people is not useless, what Im saying is an experienced DJ or someone who has been in a similar situation can help a person struggling with a certain idea. People claim that the blind is leading the blind around here. Are the people making the statement blind or can can they see the light? If they can see then their leaving would actually make the blind lead the blind.
"Followers becoming leaders without a path" as Rakim once rapped. How will the community benefit from you leaving and starting and exclusive forum?

Look at the forums... People complain when someone makes a thread about self improvement, people complain when someone makes a bootcamp thread, people complain that there are too many newbies. Without this stuff what would the seduction community be.