"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The New and Of Course Improved... High School Bible
- Thread starter Lorenzo
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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mr.mojo_man
Don Juan
if ya can e-mail me
[email protected]
SquirrelScammer
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syncmaster
Master Don Juan
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Syncmaster signing out.
a.k.a ... Adam
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
bondilicious
Don Juan
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sir Sean Connery: "losers always whine about their best, a winner goes home and fvcks the prom queen"
the highschool dj bible
Fred Da Head
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ToileT()_)PapeR
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MagiKMaK
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haha, well maybe maybe not... let's keep this thing on top tho @ least...
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Dun hate the player, hate the game...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
hell, 99!
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Whatsupwiddat - Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000
Whatever you are, be a good one
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
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Whatsupwiddat - Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000
Whatever you are, be a good one
bondilicious
Don Juan
---BUMP---
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sir Sean Connery: "losers always whine about their best, a winner goes home and fvcks the prom queen"
the highschool dj bible
Soshyopathe
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lorenzo
Master Don Juan
whatsupwiddat - The Woman Psyche can be found in Chapter 4.
The Matrix - How To "Really" can be found in the index, labeled pupularity.
Enjoy!!!
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Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“Carpe Diem."
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Sarcastic Sardonic Irreverent Impertinent Exasperating Disrespectful and Charming. This is the way of the scoundrel
CableLight
Master Don Juan
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CableLight
- Hey, I dunno what my name means either
"Always remember those you love. Even in death, no one is ever truely gone as long as they are remembered."
Life is the hardest teacher. For she gives the test first, and the lesson after.
FrenchPLay
Don Juan
bondilicious
Don Juan
it was third in the row and you bumped it?!
you must be really crazy about the bible, don't you?
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sir Sean Connery: "losers always whine about their best, a winner goes home and fvcks the prom queen"
the highschool dj bible
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.