The never ending ex-BPD chase

[dk1990S111]

About a month ago my ex bpd called me up from a blocked number, long story short I told her that I didnt want to talk to her and that I think its wrong that she talks to her exs while with another guy. For example she asked her ex, the guy she cheated on with me (I didnt know) if she should leave me and get with this other guy....ya like hes really gunna tell you no....

She goes on for a couple min about how she just cant help it because i know her so well and shes making these big life changes like planning on getting married but shes not sure about it, and she wants to move to this guys home country of Jerusalem LMFAO ya sounds like a plan, get married and move from santa monica to jerusalem hahahaha anyways, after hearing her tell me this bs I just tell her that I dont want to talk anymore and this is the last time I will speak to her so dont bother contacting me again. She was upset but agreed that that was for the best.

About 2 weeks after that she calls me (with her number unblocked) at 11:30 on a friday night. I'm guessing I know what she wanted but cant be sure since I didn't answer.

Now today I find out from my mom that some time in the last few days my ex bpd texted her saying that next time she is in town she would like to get together with my mom. she lives like 30-45 min away and her parents live literally 2 min away from mine so she will be around.

Just crazy how she just cant let it die. She left me, she is planning on getting married...I guess she just needs the validation (she was always VERY insecure) of me going back on my word and talking to her again which wont happen.

 

[christoff522]

About a month ago my ex bpd called me up from a blocked number, long story short I told her that I didnt want to talk to her and that I think its wrong that she talks to her exs while with another guy. For example she asked her ex, the guy she cheated on with me (I didnt know) if she should leave me and get with this other guy....ya like hes really gunna tell you no....

She goes on for a couple min about how she just cant help it because i know her so well and shes making these big life changes like planning on getting married but shes not sure about it, and she wants to move to this guys home country of Jerusalem LMFAO ya sounds like a plan, get married and move from santa monica to jerusalem hahahaha anyways, after hearing her tell me this bs I just tell her that I dont want to talk anymore and this is the last time I will speak to her so dont bother contacting me again. She was upset but agreed that that was for the best.

About 2 weeks after that she calls me (with her number unblocked) at 11:30 on a friday night. I'm guessing I know what she wanted but cant be sure since I didn't answer.

Now today I find out from my mom that some time in the last few days my ex bpd texted her saying that next time she is in town she would like to get together with my mom. she lives like 30-45 min away and her parents live literally 2 min away from mine so she will be around.

Just crazy how she just cant let it die. She left me, she is planning on getting married...I guess she just needs the validation (she was always VERY insecure) of me going back on my word and talking to her again which wont happen.

They're batsh!t. I told mine 10 days ago that we should end the friendship (thats what it had become), goodbye, so long "live long and prosper" etc. She goes silent from this

3 days ago she starts texting, one text everyday.

Just one text...I mean wtf??

They can't let it die, you're right. The moment you reject them, the moment you detach from the norm of their thinking, they're like "omg wtf am i going to do", and I imagine even more craziness to come. I hope so, so long as she doesn't try kill me or something. After all the **** she put me through, it'd be nice to give her a taste of her own medicine. But..overall, I don't want to speak to her..my life's okay, I wanna move on. I'm hoping she goes quiet, and maybe sometime in the future she can become a fb.

 

[dk1990S111]

I'm hoping she goes quiet, and maybe sometime in the future she can become a fb.

haha careful what you wish for man. Not sure if your ex is as crazy as mine but we did the whole fb thing for a while about a year ago which was probably about 6 months after we broke up. It was great at first but she hit me up one night after she hit some bars and was drunk as ****. Drove herself to my house and at 3 AM she is out in the street blasting music and demanding I come down of she isnt leaving. I go down there and drive her home and dont even want to fvck her because she was just all over the place. Ended with her yelling, hitting me, and punching the LCD screen and rearview mirror in her brand new prius lol that was the nail in the coffin, the sex was great but not worth dealing with someone like that.

 

[GS750]

My BPD ex did the same. I told her on 4 occasions to stop texting me. The last time she said "okay, I won't bother you anymore". A week later, she's back to texting. I finally blocked her.

 

[dk1990S111]

My BPD ex did the same. I told her on 4 occasions to stop texting me. The last time she said "okay, I won't bother you anymore". A week later, she's back to texting. I finally blocked her.

Ya I blocked my ex but then she started calling with a blocked number. My parents house phone is automatically blocked so I couldn't just not answer when a blocked number came in.

The worst part is just that while my mom knows that what my ex did was totally fvcked up, she feels sorry for her so she still talks to her.