The Nature of Attractive Women

[JackPrescott]

Attractive women, ages 20-32 say, are an enigma. They all want "Bad Boyz" no matter what they say. The "Nice Guy" always finishes last, the Playa, always gets her panties off in the end. The Playa gets her ass, and then she gets her ass "nexted" and then she needs to find a nice "Nice Guy" with who she can lament and cry and whine, until the Bad Boy calls her at 4am and craves her sexually, at which point she will run to him, wearing her sexiest thong. She never lands up in a relationship with Tupac, but she climaxes harder with him than any other man.

I guess the key to landing Sexy Women in the sack is a strange combination of "as$sholeness" confidence, ****iness, charm and humor, mixed in with arrogance, hatefulness, a sense of "nothing phases me, I could care less if you want to fukk or not" and a sense of being the "Alpha Dog" Every fukking woman on the Planet claims she wants a nice guy who treats her good, and swallows buckets of *** from the a$$hole who treats her like ($hit) a fukk doll.

If we are to be good Don Juans, we must follow the Energy of the A$$hole. He is one true Alpha Male, who knows what he wants from women, and doesnt beat around the bush. I have no use for, or interest in women who want to be "Just Friends" or "Arent Ready for Anything yet"...or are "just getting out of a relationship" Those are ALL lame ass excuses, for "I dont want to let you fukk me".....I got divorced years ago, and 2 days after I walked out on my wife, I was ready for some action. Women are the same. What is it, a 67 week waiting period, while their "heart heals" so they can go to bed with a man? Bull$hit, say I, it is an excuse.

From here on out, I PLEDGE to be that a$$hole. I will let women know what I expect from them, indirectly at first, with flirting and Kino, and then very directly. If they want to be taken to Space Mountain, sexually, they will offer me their naked vaginas, offer their bottoms to me like an obediant slave. Or they will be "nexted"....they, if they choose the first, are promised a wild ride, both in and out of the sack. The Night Scene, clubbing, dancing, bar hopping, kareokee, bar b ques, parties, VEGAS, and much, much more, in addition to trying out the Kama Sutra, Full Body Massage, Acupressure, Acupuncture, hot oil massage, hot stone massage, different vibrators, and many experimental things done best in the privacy of a bedroom.

If they choose the second, they will be warned to lose my number.

 

[DJVladdy]

So which of the above-described archetypes are YOU?
that's the most important question
The Bad-boy, or the nice-guy?

 

[DJVladdy]

WAIT, hold up bro.
Why are YOU writing this? I remembered you're the guy who wrote was very masculine, strong, manly, etc... you aren't a nerdy dweeb wimp, from what I understood.

I was about to write on this thread something along the lines of: "the sexual bad-boy is not an option for EVERY guy, because you need those pre-natal testosterone levels, that you can do nothing to change." Someone like me has it IN him, and seems like you do as well.

Cuz honestly bro, this post looks like from some discouraged nerdy guy.

 

[MacAvoy]

Jack,

Its not as easy as you think it is to be an a$$hole.

 

[JackPrescott]

WAIT, hold up bro.
Why are YOU writing this? I remembered you're the guy who wrote was very masculine, strong, manly, etc... you aren't a nerdy dweeb wimp, from what I understood.

I was about to write on this thread something along the lines of: "the sexual bad-boy is not an option for EVERY guy, because you need those pre-natal testosterone levels, that you can do nothing to change." Someone like me has it IN him, and seems like you do as well.

Cuz honestly bro, this post looks like from some discouraged nerdy guy.

No, not at all. I was being strictly objective.

 

[Sandow]

you can only be like this for so long, eventually you'll crack. ok, maybe i'm personally talking here. I was like this for quite a while. Do u get girls? Hell ya. Do you get laid, hell ya.

but at some point you'll ask yourself, "why am I even doing this?" I guess what i'm trying to say is that eventually you'll get bored and want something more meaningful. and you'll realize that pu$$y is just pu$$y, and being a total jerk doesnt really give me gratification.

For me, having a balance is key. but its hard. just trying to bone everything becomes very repititous and it got boring for me.I think theres more to just banging girls.

This is just my personal opinion...

 

[Last Man Standing]

The Nature of Attractive Women

The Nature of Attractive Women is the same as unattractive women - the difference is their vanity!!!

 

[DonGorgon]

You are over complicating a very simple issue... Its all about disparities in demand and supply between the genders. women have a higher value cause there are soo many men chasing them now. More men than they could ever need!!!

SOO.. YOUR SOLUTION IS TO TRY TO EVEN THe FIELD BE HAVING AS MANY OTHER FEMALE OPTIONS AS POSSIBLE! YOU ARE WEEK WHEN YOU ARE DEPENDING ON ONE WOMAN FOR SEX/ATTENTION.

Unfortunately that sad fact puts love marriage and LTRs completely out of the question.

 

[DJVladdy]

Mac, are you serious?
You say that it's a hard task to become an *******?? Like it's something that you need to put effort into? Sorry to disappoint you, us men are as sholes by NATURE,.

THATS WHY THEY INVENTED ''RELIGION, SOCIAL CONDITIONING, CHIVALRY ETC.....

To keep us under control, because we are beasts deep down.

 

[DJVladdy]

But actually I just reread ur whole post... very good advice Jack. The truth right there. I first thought you were blaming women and "jerks", but when you said that what you are from now on... Now we're on the same page brother, same with me. I misunderstood you at first.

 

[Interceptor]

Women who are healthy do not want an ******* for a man.

They want to be next to rock hard Masculinity.
They want to feel your strength, not your insecurity.

Being the ******* is a negative, and short term gratification move. Thus, it is ultimately IMMATURE, and NOT truly SHREWD.

This will not lead to greater things in life.


Women want Men whom are masculine, strong, in a physical sense, but also Mentally and Emotionally.

They want to know you have Emotions, but they want to know you WILL NOT CRACK under Pressure.
Wehn Women FEEL your strength, esspecially the Emotional Strength you have, then that is when they will trust you, and let themselves be Polarized into more Femeninity, and accept your Masculinity.

They will not do that when they don't trust you.


Women often have difficulties surrendering to men because they feel many Men are too insecure and too detached from their Emotions, thus, actually not having the strength, patience, or discipine to let themselves experience them fully.
A woman needs to feel that you are her 'rock'.
That you will not crack or cave in.
That you will not lose control emotionally when SHE 'loses control' emotionally".
Women GROW UP Owning their Emotions, thus, they are able to ATTACH or DETACH , INVEST and DIVEST their Emotional resources.
They want a Man who can do the same.
This is why women are turned off by men who don't have that switch, it makes women feel out of place and uncomfortabel being with you.

What usually happens when a man's woman cries and breaks down?
Often, the man will not have the patience to deal with it, and will force her to stop feeling her emotions. He will not want to be there emotionally with her. Why?
he doesn't have the ltools or understanding to do so without crashing himself.
This is why women feel that they must be stronger than Men.
They grew up connected to their emotions, and are honest about it and accept it. They relaized throughout their lives, that the majority of Men DO NOT. They often escape feeling their emotions and being responsible and mature about it.
Thus, actually displaying weakness.
This is what women are often turned off by.

Men's emotional WEAKNESSES.
Face it, most guys either 'don't want to deal with it". So ethey become EMOTIONALLY ABSENT and are NOT EMOTIONALLY PRESENT with HER.
Or, when men do reveal their inner feeligns and emotions, lacking the tools to be in control, they BREAK DOWN and CRASH and CRACK and CAVE IN to their Emotions.
Making women feel like they are not WITH a REAL MAN.



Women expect men to be practical, and strong enough to be in control of their emotions, thus, making you a far more attractive partner.

 

[young_gun]

I agree with Interceptor, I think by becoming an a$$hole you will probably end up attracting the wrong kind of woman. Pooks "Be a Man!" post is excellent.

 

[Poonani Maker]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CbZICdK_QFE

 

[Last Man Standing]

Interceptor, this is why I was against splitting up the forum and creating the mature man forum - the main discussion forum is filled with young guys that don't know the reality of today's women or a man's position relating to her!
And this is the forum they come to to seek counsel.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Plus, when you try to be that type of @sshole, theres a 100% chance you do it wrong and end up hated by everyone.

 

[The Bat]

Or worse, get laughed at by everyone because you will look so pathetic when trying to imitate an a-hole/jerk.

 

[DJVladdy]

Again i see the same thing written 2 more times, by bat and LC

"100% you do it wrong"
"Look pathetic trying to imitate"

This is already IN you guys... it's not solving a physics problem, or learning a form in Karate! It's something very primal and natural.

 

[The Bat]

Me and LC were talking about in context of beginners/starters/recent-AFCs who are trying to turn into a-holes overnight. Besides, is the "hated and laughed at" part of the test when you are trying to embrace your natural self? I think you know the answer.

 

[DJVladdy]

Ok, well of course... but i assumed that sosuave did not have any STEREOTYPICAL NERDS... yes, if one of THEM tried to act like a sexual bad boy it would look rediculous.

 

[iqqi]

Women who are healthy do not want an ******* for a man.

They want to be next to rock hard Masculinity.
They want to feel your strength, not your insecurity.

Being the ******* is a negative, and short term gratification move. Thus, it is ultimately IMMATURE, and NOT truly SHREWD.

This will not lead to greater things in life.


Women want Men whom are masculine, strong, in a physical sense, but also Mentally and Emotionally.

They want to know you have Emotions, but they want to know you WILL NOT CRACK under Pressure.
Wehn Women FEEL your strength, esspecially the Emotional Strength you have, then that is when they will trust you, and let themselves be Polarized into more Femeninity, and accept your Masculinity.

They will not do that when they don't trust you.


Women often have difficulties surrendering to men because they feel many Men are too insecure and too detached from their Emotions, thus, actually not having the strength, patience, or discipine to let themselves experience them fully.
A woman needs to feel that you are her 'rock'.
That you will not crack or cave in.
That you will not lose control emotionally when SHE 'loses control' emotionally".
Women GROW UP Owning their Emotions, thus, they are able to ATTACH or DETACH , INVEST and DIVEST their Emotional resources.
They want a Man who can do the same.
This is why women are turned off by men who don't have that switch, it makes women feel out of place and uncomfortabel being with you.

What usually happens when a man's woman cries and breaks down?
Often, the man will not have the patience to deal with it, and will force her to stop feeling her emotions. He will not want to be there emotionally with her. Why?
he doesn't have the ltools or understanding to do so without crashing himself.
This is why women feel that they must be stronger than Men.
They grew up connected to their emotions, and are honest about it and accept it. They relaized throughout their lives, that the majority of Men DO NOT. They often escape feeling their emotions and being responsible and mature about it.
Thus, actually displaying weakness.
This is what women are often turned off by.

Men's emotional WEAKNESSES.
Face it, most guys either 'don't want to deal with it". So ethey become EMOTIONALLY ABSENT and are NOT EMOTIONALLY PRESENT with HER.
Or, when men do reveal their inner feeligns and emotions, lacking the tools to be in control, they BREAK DOWN and CRASH and CRACK and CAVE IN to their Emotions.
Making women feel like they are not WITH a REAL MAN.



Women expect men to be practical, and strong enough to be in control of their emotions, thus, making you a far more attractive partner.

GREAT post, something that was on my very mind tonight. I even chose to spend Valentines Day by myself rather than with any of the men I know, because I am tired of being around weak, insecure, soulless men. I could not even stomach the idea of their displays of affection on this day, as they do not have the strenth or sincerity to reach me.

I just want to meet a man who is stronger than I am!!