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Things can't go wrong forever.
We all have our days on which some things go so smooth that we can hardly believe it. Like seduction. Sometimes, as incredible as it seems, seducing becomes so easy that you don't have to think about it. Have you observed yourself at that time? What exactly makes it go smooth? Most of them are so obvious that they are forgotten.
See the whole contact as a joke and make it appear that way so the other person knows it's light too. So there is no stress. When we both know we're flirting it becomes so much easier.If you engage in "flirting eyecontact" she'll know you're flirting and when she smiles back then you know she knows.The two of you know that you are both being naughty so you can go on with the flirting.The feeling of being naughty is the greatest secret to flirting.I've learned this years ago when I first visited the prostitution streets of Amsterdam.Flirting with the prostitutes was really easy because I knew they were just faking it but more important : from my point of view it was very easy to flirt because they already knew what I was trying to do.So all you have to do is to make clear that you are flirting.How to do this : read Red-xL's article about eyecontact.
· I see the female I'm talking to as a don't-need-her-anyway-if-something-goes-wrong-type.When I'm having an attitude problem (a.k.a. being confident) this girl can even be the girl I'm in love with.So I don't give a damn about losing her.I wouldn't want to hurt her though.
· The Seduction Touch (1) : Arms and Hands: I can stroke the female's arms and hands while talking.What else can she do then to pull back if she doesn't want me to touch her there.She can't scream right…just because you're touching her where touching is allowed.
· The Seduction Touch (2) : The Hair : I can touch the female's hair (grabbing a flock between two fingers of one hand and playing and asking what she uses so it feels that way or pulling gently to see how curls (if there are any) react to the pull) while talking.
· The Seduction Touch (3) : The Face : I touch the female's face (stroking with the back of the hand is less intimate and therefore less intimidating to her)
· The Seduction Touch (4) : The Hips : When I was dancing with a girl I pulled her toward me with a want-to-dance gesture.I pulled her with holding her right hand with my left and when she was where I wanted her to be I lowered my hands by going over her right hip with my left hand.No rejection because I was very fast and confident at it.
· The Seduction Touch (5) : Breasts and Butt : I even simulate mistakes (requires very very good timing !!!) by touching her forbidden areas (breasts,butt).I'm also a bit clumsy so it kinda goes in a natural way.
· The Face to Face Touch (1) : When I'm talking to her I whisper a lot of air in her ear.Tickle tickle.(I have difficulty with keeping the temperature of the air low.So help ME with that please if you know a trick) When I pull back I kinda go over her face with my lips.I let go her face before I come to the lips… or else we will be kissing.
· The Face to Face Touch (2) : When I'm whispering something from the rear I pull back her hair to clear the path to her ear and I accidentally forget to put the hair aside but instead I keep it in my hand.With no obvious reason I play with it.
· I'm playing games with girls.Irritating games.Like when they want to hold something I pull it back and look them in the eye with a "I'm flirting with you" look and smile (very important).Works with girls behind counters in stores too.
· In a naughty mood you can stroke over the girl's hand while giving her something.Money or other stuff.Some time ago I read about a test that showed that people who touch the other person's hand while giving him/her something are seen as friendlier than the people who don't touch at all.
· At party's I make sure the girl drinks A LITTLE alcohol (read white wine).It's manipulation but it does miracles.
· I get horny myself after one beer I share with the girl.Sharing drinks or lollies with a girl turns me on and flirting becomes easier.This can only happen if a girl herself offers you to share a drink with her.Don't you dare to say no.You know how bad they take rejections like that.So just go for it.
· I flip bottles at work (waiter in bar) behind the bar and I do tricks with my serving plate.Like throwing it up and catching it with one hand parallel with the ground.Girls love to see you show off.
· Get a girlfriend with lipstick to kiss you (You can point a finger to your cheek or you can just say it hurts there and that you want a kiss to make the pain go away).Don't wipe it off.Walk around inside the bar or discotheque.Pretend you don't understand when people try to make you aware of the lipstick.Or just wipe the other cheek.Keep it until everybody has seen it.Girls love it.You can ask for more (other girls) on your way.
· When a girl is cold you can rub over her arms.A gesture that shows you care about her.
· When she is tired put your arm around her.You are not doing anything sexually are you ?
· Offer her your lap when there is no place to sit.Wrap her in you arms around her waist.Just for support.
· When she tells you some place on her body hurts you go like "You want a kiss to make it go away ?"This can be done without asking if you're the one who hurt her.
· Look like an innocent kid (you can do it.It's somewhere in your genetic database) when you've done or said something wrong.The girls are not immune to it.They become kids themselves (mirroring) to make you feel better again.
· Be a traditional man sometimes.The girls love to see you as the macho.It's a very cool flirting method.It's also a very good flirt if they see that you can control a couple of other men.The girls feel my biceps when I'm carrying a full serving plate (with drinks) at work.So they want me to be a strong man.Kinda makes you wonder how the sick idea of the perfect man in the eighties (over-sensitive, wimp-a-like, obeys women) evolved.Sick… even sicker if you consider that there was a time I believed that crap.Long time ago.Far far away in time.
· Dancing is one big flirt they say.Proof:look at all the wimps with the girls.The only thing they can do decently is dancing.I dance too but I've rejected every flirt just to learn to dance properly (at dancingclasses).Girls like controlled hip-movements.It makes you look homosexual (I have three homosexual friends and I still haven't seen them move like that ) to men but if you end up with a shag (with a woman) then why complain ?
· When you see a girl walking out a store you accidentally block her path and when she wants to move out of your way you move in the same direction.A couple of times.Then laugh about it.
· Make sure you and her can laugh about the two of you whatever the outcome is after the flirt.Laughing cures cancer sometimes.
"I'm not suffering from insanity;I'm enjoying every minute of it"
[This message has been edited by stockholder (edited 04-20-2002).]
We all have our days on which some things go so smooth that we can hardly believe it. Like seduction. Sometimes, as incredible as it seems, seducing becomes so easy that you don't have to think about it. Have you observed yourself at that time? What exactly makes it go smooth? Most of them are so obvious that they are forgotten.
See the whole contact as a joke and make it appear that way so the other person knows it's light too. So there is no stress. When we both know we're flirting it becomes so much easier.If you engage in "flirting eyecontact" she'll know you're flirting and when she smiles back then you know she knows.The two of you know that you are both being naughty so you can go on with the flirting.The feeling of being naughty is the greatest secret to flirting.I've learned this years ago when I first visited the prostitution streets of Amsterdam.Flirting with the prostitutes was really easy because I knew they were just faking it but more important : from my point of view it was very easy to flirt because they already knew what I was trying to do.So all you have to do is to make clear that you are flirting.How to do this : read Red-xL's article about eyecontact.
· I see the female I'm talking to as a don't-need-her-anyway-if-something-goes-wrong-type.When I'm having an attitude problem (a.k.a. being confident) this girl can even be the girl I'm in love with.So I don't give a damn about losing her.I wouldn't want to hurt her though.
· The Seduction Touch (1) : Arms and Hands: I can stroke the female's arms and hands while talking.What else can she do then to pull back if she doesn't want me to touch her there.She can't scream right…just because you're touching her where touching is allowed.
· The Seduction Touch (2) : The Hair : I can touch the female's hair (grabbing a flock between two fingers of one hand and playing and asking what she uses so it feels that way or pulling gently to see how curls (if there are any) react to the pull) while talking.
· The Seduction Touch (3) : The Face : I touch the female's face (stroking with the back of the hand is less intimate and therefore less intimidating to her)
· The Seduction Touch (4) : The Hips : When I was dancing with a girl I pulled her toward me with a want-to-dance gesture.I pulled her with holding her right hand with my left and when she was where I wanted her to be I lowered my hands by going over her right hip with my left hand.No rejection because I was very fast and confident at it.
· The Seduction Touch (5) : Breasts and Butt : I even simulate mistakes (requires very very good timing !!!) by touching her forbidden areas (breasts,butt).I'm also a bit clumsy so it kinda goes in a natural way.
· The Face to Face Touch (1) : When I'm talking to her I whisper a lot of air in her ear.Tickle tickle.(I have difficulty with keeping the temperature of the air low.So help ME with that please if you know a trick) When I pull back I kinda go over her face with my lips.I let go her face before I come to the lips… or else we will be kissing.
· The Face to Face Touch (2) : When I'm whispering something from the rear I pull back her hair to clear the path to her ear and I accidentally forget to put the hair aside but instead I keep it in my hand.With no obvious reason I play with it.
· I'm playing games with girls.Irritating games.Like when they want to hold something I pull it back and look them in the eye with a "I'm flirting with you" look and smile (very important).Works with girls behind counters in stores too.
· In a naughty mood you can stroke over the girl's hand while giving her something.Money or other stuff.Some time ago I read about a test that showed that people who touch the other person's hand while giving him/her something are seen as friendlier than the people who don't touch at all.
· At party's I make sure the girl drinks A LITTLE alcohol (read white wine).It's manipulation but it does miracles.
· I get horny myself after one beer I share with the girl.Sharing drinks or lollies with a girl turns me on and flirting becomes easier.This can only happen if a girl herself offers you to share a drink with her.Don't you dare to say no.You know how bad they take rejections like that.So just go for it.
· I flip bottles at work (waiter in bar) behind the bar and I do tricks with my serving plate.Like throwing it up and catching it with one hand parallel with the ground.Girls love to see you show off.
· Get a girlfriend with lipstick to kiss you (You can point a finger to your cheek or you can just say it hurts there and that you want a kiss to make the pain go away).Don't wipe it off.Walk around inside the bar or discotheque.Pretend you don't understand when people try to make you aware of the lipstick.Or just wipe the other cheek.Keep it until everybody has seen it.Girls love it.You can ask for more (other girls) on your way.
· When a girl is cold you can rub over her arms.A gesture that shows you care about her.
· When she is tired put your arm around her.You are not doing anything sexually are you ?
· Offer her your lap when there is no place to sit.Wrap her in you arms around her waist.Just for support.
· When she tells you some place on her body hurts you go like "You want a kiss to make it go away ?"This can be done without asking if you're the one who hurt her.
· Look like an innocent kid (you can do it.It's somewhere in your genetic database) when you've done or said something wrong.The girls are not immune to it.They become kids themselves (mirroring) to make you feel better again.
· Be a traditional man sometimes.The girls love to see you as the macho.It's a very cool flirting method.It's also a very good flirt if they see that you can control a couple of other men.The girls feel my biceps when I'm carrying a full serving plate (with drinks) at work.So they want me to be a strong man.Kinda makes you wonder how the sick idea of the perfect man in the eighties (over-sensitive, wimp-a-like, obeys women) evolved.Sick… even sicker if you consider that there was a time I believed that crap.Long time ago.Far far away in time.
· Dancing is one big flirt they say.Proof:look at all the wimps with the girls.The only thing they can do decently is dancing.I dance too but I've rejected every flirt just to learn to dance properly (at dancingclasses).Girls like controlled hip-movements.It makes you look homosexual (I have three homosexual friends and I still haven't seen them move like that ) to men but if you end up with a shag (with a woman) then why complain ?
· When you see a girl walking out a store you accidentally block her path and when she wants to move out of your way you move in the same direction.A couple of times.Then laugh about it.
· Make sure you and her can laugh about the two of you whatever the outcome is after the flirt.Laughing cures cancer sometimes.
"I'm not suffering from insanity;I'm enjoying every minute of it"
[This message has been edited by stockholder (edited 04-20-2002).]
