The Mythical War on Men

[Findog]

While it's correct that most men have never heard of the MRM, the messages have reached way more than you think. I see them grow in my own very blue-pill social circle. I keep my mouth shut and say nothing except through humour, and I keep hearing guys bringing up topics related to the MRM and saying how they're sick & tired of feminist bullsh1t (e.g the 77c to a dollar one). Nobody is active in spreading the message IRL, but those guys are finding them all on their own, thanks to the Internet.

Besides, no guy wants to admit this IRL due to lack of anonymity. If you talk to me in my social habitat, you'd hear mostly blue pill crap, although if you pay attention, you'll recognise plenty of red pill knowledge sprinkled here & there. There are so many feminists in my circles (a very SWPL city) that I have to protect myself. Laws of power baby.

Articles like this one are great for us. Even when they publish their denials of any war on men or issue affecting men, they are giving our issues publicity. Naturally men will read this and their minds will wonder if the issues truly exist or not. Getting them to think about men's issues (hopefully before they get bitten in the arse by those) is a great start.

Yes. I know that none of my friends are even aware of the manosphere, and I am pleasantly surprised all the time at how many red-pill sentiments I hear from them. I am the same way. I have to be careful when and where I talk about this kind of stuff.

 

[Jitterbug]

"Nobody I know voted for Nixon" isn't much of an argument, AlphaWhiskey.

 

[samspade]

I understand some of your responses to Alpha Whiskey's comment about false rape charges. In a way it does sound like one of those sayings about the Holocaust...."First they came for my neighbor and I said nothing." Etc.

But his greater point is that it is highly unlikely to happen to you. In fact I submit that the more Game-aware you are, the LESS likely it will happen to YOU. Kind of like the more common sense you exercise while traveling in foreign countries, the less likely you are to be harassed by authorities or targeted by criminals. Can it still happen? Yes, but it's less likely if you've taken the proper steps to protect yourself. To use Danger's example, the Duke LaCrosse team, whether guilty or innocent, did not exercise sound judgment that night. They put themselves in a vulnerable position. (So did the plaintiff, for that matter.) That doesn't mean they should be presumed guilty; it simply is an illustration of how little awareness these young men had that night.

Game awareness and red pill ingesting could probably save a lot of lives. I'm not joking when I say that. But the best way to change starts with yourself. You won't be seeing a congressman introducing "G's Up, Ho's Down" legislation anytime soon. But there may a future congressman or judge on these boards right now, opening his eyes for the first time. In the battle of science vs. Absolutism, science eventually wins, but it takes a long time.

 

[AW1983]

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Ok, I knew as soon as I wrote that paragraph that I'd be getting these type of responses. But samspade gets it...do I know it's possible? Of course. But in my mind it's *highly improbable* to happen to me. I don't worry about it the same way I don't worry about getting struck by lightning, or getting salmonella poisoning at a restaurant.

To address your points Danger:

One does not even have to be present to be falsely accused of rape. That is how powerful the misandry machine is. Once you are accused, whether you were even there or not, you are guilty. Just like accusations of domestic violence.

One doesn't even have to be present to be accused of murder either. Doesn't mean your going to jail. I would like some demonstrable evidence of someone who wasn't even present and was found guilty. I'm not saying it doesn't exist, I'd just like to see it. I'm guessing these cases are statistical outliers.

One should not have to fear being in certain situations just because one is male. That is NOT freedom.

Ha, sorry man, but you're losing your grasp on reality with this one. Imagine a woman saying the same thing about being female and walking down a dark ally in the slum part of town wearing next to nothing, in the middle of the night. We would all sneer at such naivety. The truth is we live in the world the way it is. Adapt and exercise judgment, or perish.

I think the speed limit is too low in my town as well as the legal limit for blood alcohol content while driving. Now I can spend all my time recruiting and lobbying to affect legal change, or I can spend precious time on this planet doing things that are more of a priority for me, more fulfilling. In the meantime I'll avoid speeding and drinking a sh!tload before I have to drive, and on nights that I have had a couple drinks, I'll take the backroads.

Would I like to see things change? Sure. But the most power *I* can exert over my own life is to control my own circumstances as much as possible, via Game/Awareness. I support the MRM's goals completely, but I'm not waiting around cursing my woes until some legislative changes are made. Instead I'll go through this life like a British commando in WW2: slide into enemy territory in disguise, get what I came there for, and slide back out. With none the wiser but me. And sosuave haha. If and when pro-male legislation comes to the table, believe me - I'll vote for it. Never in any post have I derided the MRM. All I said above was that Game/Awareness trumps all.

This is not meant as an attack on anyone, but how can someone look in the mirror and decide that they would rather tiptoe through the world as it is for fear of being ground up by the system as opposed to helping men wake up?

Notice I said above - "Sure...but you could also get hit by lightning the second you walk out your front door. Anything's possible, but f*ck it - you only have one life to live."

Does that sound like mentality of a guy who is tiptoeing through the world in fear?

 

[AW1983]

And if you are curtailing your actions in life to avoid the possibilities of those accusations, like making out with a girl at a bar, then you are living in fear. No matter what you say, that is an undeniable fact.

But I'm not. I've made out with I don't know how many girls I just met at bars, and the worst that ever happened was one time a girl I was having excellent chemistry with got insta-b!tchy when I approached her again 10 min later. In immediate retrospective analysis I concluded it was because I had been talking to her friend first and then when her friends saw us making out I think they gave her sh!t and she ramped up the ASD into overdrive. I learned my lesson though, always isolate before you escalate. But I digress...

You make very valid points Danger, no doubt. But I'll tell you what: I'll keep doing things my way, and if I end up in jail I'll write you a letter conceding defeat. I wouldn't hold your breath though.

 

[Down Low]

Thousands of DJs with great game and alertness are getting azz-raped in prison every day. Mostly for drug-related behaviors. But I'm one of the lucky ones who seemed to be born with an alertness to the dangers of drug abuse. So my alertness is all I need. It's all anyone really needs. It simply does not matter whether or not there really is a war on drugs. And those guys who got into trouble, well, it's their own fault. See, they didn't have enough alertness. They should have taken the red pill. Or is it a blue Viagra? I forget. I'm not into drugs. No, my bad, they should NOT have taken any pills. That's what got them into trouble in the first place.

Wait a minute. What were we talking about?

 

[Lynx nkaf]

When I write I deliberately make my posts and my blog as politically and racially neutral as I can. Unless the topic is specifically about how the current gender landscape relates to a political climate, or expresses the individual experiences of a particular ethnicity or nationality, I intently keep my work as neutral as possible.

I do so because Game, unplugging and red pill awareness isn't about race or political affiliation, or even gender. I encourage anyone to participate in the discussion. I think all men (and more women now) regardless of culture or race can contribute to a better collective knowledge of Game and the awakening. I would be foolish to discount the related experiences of some guy in urban China or rural Africa. Everything help, every related experience strengthens the awakening.

This is what my opponents in the feminine imperative fear. That enough men will become aware. So they have to cast the manosphere as a collective of angry white conservatives. It's too terrible a notion to think that the manosphere is in fact a multi-cultural collective.

well-written

 

[Lynx nkaf]

without Rollo's writing skills I wouldn't be writing this here.
First time in my life I was able to share pain of a failed relationship.
Grateful for all you guys. I'd like to read more of Rollo's stuff.