"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Myth of the Quality Woman

Interceptor

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How did those get in there??!!:eek:


They're not mine!

I swear!!



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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phyzzle

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I don't know if I like this talk of women having no sense of loyalty or morality. It's hard to quantify, but I would say that 21st century middle class women are about as loyal as middle class men in the 19th century, back when men could treat women as they wished without any consequences. Human beings are about as loyal as their lack of options.

If I worked with a lot of eager sorority girls, if I could cheat without being shunned, if I could drop my wife or live-in gf any time she complains and keep everything we both own, would I be any more loyal than women who are in the same situation?

right before she broke up with me she called my best friend and told him to be there for me cuz she was dumping me and talkled to a few others and let them know too.
That's rough, and I think you suffer from Home Town Syndrome. Why would a girl you're dating know the #'s of your friends? And what kind of no-life friends do you have that they care about somebody else's love life? If my brothers girl called me to say she was dumping him, I'd say, "okay . . . is there anything else or is that it?"
 
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