"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The must watch DJ film

Zerotwoonenine

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guys i have just watched Alfie, and it really got me thinking, over the last year i have read all the tips, got a new life, got a mch better game going on, my success rate shot up with women, but i am still not very happy, because i am still single because i am not very good at relationships. I started out being a DJ because i wanted revenge, women have broke my heart and i wanted to be a guy that they wouldn't resist, so when they get hooked on me i can break their heart, but now my mindset has all changed. I want to be with someone and have a relationship, not one night stands and revenge.
Watch the film and seriously, think about what you want. Jerks and player never gets happinesss with women, sure they get laid, but they dont get happiness, they lose the fun in attracting women, and thats sad, thats being the exact opposite of DJing.
What do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Doggystyle

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First off the film is a script thats someone has wrote, its not real life. I pretty much new from the start what was going to happen at the end even though I had never seen it before, thats hollywood for you. Look at Hitch as well.

A friend was watching that film with a girl at the cinema, and at the end she turned to him and said, see its not good to be a player or whatever. Its made to appeal to both male and female. If it was just a film about him going round ****ing everything that moved, with the only conclusion of "yeah i can **** allot of women, woo!" that would of done horrendous at the box office, as hard to believe even worse that alfie actually did!

Being good with women should never be about revenge, it should be about the fact that you like women so much and want more, or want to find the best. If your doing it for revenge, or anything for revenge for that matter, you wont be happy.

I dont like using the term jerk or players, but people that are good with women will and do find happyness or whatever there looking for as they are able to choose and find the person most suited to them if they want to settle down, rather than settle for the best they can get.
 
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Agree with Doggystyle. This is hollywood people. Of course he will be reprimanded for his promiscous ways.

Also the original Alfie (starring Michael Caine) is way better and doesn't have that moralistic pc bull**** that is so prevelent within hollywood movies over the last decade and a half.
 

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Zerotwoonenine said:
but now my mindset has all changed. I want to be with someone and have a relationship, not one night stands and revenge.
Watch the film and seriously, think about what you want. Jerks and player never gets happinesss with women, sure they get laid, but they dont get happiness, they lose the fun in attracting women, and thats sad, thats being the exact opposite of DJing.
What do you think?
This site doesn't promote being a jerk or a revenge-driven woman destroyer. I use the info on this site to date a lot of women, and if I want, start a relationship with the one of my choice. It seems as though all you're saying is that the movie made you decide you don't want to break women's hearts, but I don't think anyone here has that goal in mind..
 

The Truth

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Less film watching and more action!

You'll learn a lot more from real life than you will from watching films. Get in the field and get some experience!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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piterx

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The Truth said:
Less film watching and more action!

You'll learn a lot more from real life than you will from watching films. Get in the field and get some experience!
sounds like elvis song `a little less conversation a little more action please ` :rockon: :woo: :rockon:
 
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