"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CoolCat5191

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ok this weekend im going to the movies with some girl and her friend. I might be bringing another friend along so she can talk to the other girl. So the girl im gunna chill with ive been talking too alot lately i made her laugh and got alot of progress but she just broke up with her boy friend. should i make a move or should i just be a good freind the first few dates to let her think thinks out. I can tell she likes me alot.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CoolCat5191

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well **** she just broke up with her boyfriend. is she just looking for emotional support because we have talked nothing emotional lately or something better
 

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If you act like a friend on the first "date," you will shove yourself right into her friend zone. Once there, you might as well forget about hittin it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BacardiGuy

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Don't become an "emotional tampon" as people here like to put it. If you and her have already developed rapport, movies are great for heavy kino if not making out.
 
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