"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The movie "What's Your Number"

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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/marga...-number-anna-faris-karyn-bosnak_b_988531.html

Evidently the movie is a romantic comedy about a woman who reflects upon the number of sexual partners she has had, and after coming to the conclusion that she's had too many, that she wants to be virginal going forward until she finds her husband - and decides to track down her former beaus to marry one of them.

I haven't seen this movie (maybe I'll try to torrent it), but it seems to me that this is the all too familiar story of a woman who goes on the alpha c0ck carousel, and suddenly decides it's time, and then withholds sex until she finds her "soulmate."

From the trailer

I am not going to sleep with another guy until he's the one."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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More female hamster spinning combined with mental masturbation. NEXT!
 

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Im trying to cut porn out of my life, female porn too.

It's simply not heatlhy for our brains, or hamsters according to the viewers.
 

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Irl, she ends up marrying a boring easy to control guy for stability. She gets bored, starts cheating, increasing her number. But they won't include that in the ending.
 

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Dear MDJ,
What would we do without you....These born again Virgins are an interesting Phenomena....The reality is that to lose your Horniness is just not what the Feminine agenda is about....sadly that's what happens to many....not all...so we justify the role of celibacy that Nature forces on us,by making a virtue of our inadequacy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nice spearhead article particularly this line...

"And, more than anything else, what “women’s liberation” demanded was “liberation” from any restraints on their ability to manipulate men."

time to get back to old school values.
 

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WOW! what an incisive breakdown

from the spearhead 'stop looking for a wife'

"Little breeds a sense of entitlement more than victory, so marriage is tainted from the beginning by this triumphal celebration of the bride. Therefore, Western women go into marriage not as a wife, but as a conqueror. After that, to ask her to submit to – or even cooperate with – her husband would be akin to asking the triumphant athlete to resign himself to working the same dull, boring jobs his friends who never made the cut had to settle for. Some athletes may have the humility and grace to accept such a life without regret and bitterness, but obviously many will not."
 

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and lastly.

"It’s time we took the concepts of the wife and marriage put them in a museum. Some will say that you can keep your wife and marriage if you run Game on your wife, but let’s be honest here: if you have to Game her to keep her she ain’t your wife – she’s your girlfriend at best – and you aren’t married in the real sense of the word, but shacking up."
 

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L B said:
Irl, she ends up marrying a boring easy to control guy for stability. She gets bored, starts cheating, increasing her number. But they won't include that in the ending.
Nearly every single girl from my social group of close and not so close friends has gone through this exact scenario (From around 20-30 girls we know from mutual friends etc)

The guys have split off into two groups one group about 5 of us have gone down the DJ way have remained single and are either very succesful with nearly all aspects of their lifes or working towards that success. The other 10-20 guys have decided to stick to their women like glue no matter what crap gets thrown at them have grown fat old and are balding with kids and look 15-30 years older than they are.
 
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