"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The movie "The Incredible Mr. Limpet" is evidence of how much more difficult it is for men to get women

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This is a movie from the '60s about WW2 in which a man who has always loved fish gets rejected for the Navy (4-F), and wishes he could become a fish ... which he ends up doing, becoming a Navy operative that helps the Navy destroy Nazi German U-boats.
The title character is portrayed by the well-known comic actor Don Knotts, who I think we can all say represented something akin to a StBlackOps2Cel-tier man of his era.

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In the movie, he had a wife:

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OK, her face is a little off, but she wasn't fat, and presumably neither a single mommy. :rolleyes: The point is that, in the current era, would it be possible for any man of Knott's looks to get anything close to a gal like this? This was what the zeitgeist of the post-WW2 was. To be ANY man that wasn't a criminal, there would be decent women thrown your way all the time, so that all you had to do was play that part of being respectable, and a wife would be guaranteed.

Oh, how the times have changed ...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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