the move

[devilkingx2]

If you only live for ioi's, you'll get two clear ones on average each time you are out for a few hours (by my view). This is not enough to practice the specific skill. What's more, your reaction times suck as a beginner, so you will not be reacting to most of them anyways.

but at the same time, approaching girls that obviously won't work out is an exercise in masochism, so balance is needed between only approaching girls who wink and blow you a kiss, vs. approaching a girl wearing headphones on her laptop with a b!tchface who's on a bus 3 stops away from the last stop

 

[jaymbrs]

Im curious, How do you approach them in the bar? what's your demeanor like? What do you open up with?

Pretty basic in my approach. “Hi I’m jay”. “What are you drinking?”