"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The most ridiculous thing I've heard from a psychologist on TV- feminist embracer

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Well, many times when fellow sosuavers complain about feminism and media I think to myself to be a poor excuse for their lack of success. But although my position remains, it's clear that something really fvcked up must be going.

One pyschologist on national TV said that because we live in a democratic society if men cheat, women should also be able to cheat. And while he defended that people who love do not cheat he also recognized that many people don't love, and cheating is a way of experimenting and find a new love .

Now the "bomb": He said that while this makes men furious (almost as we should accept it, passively) globally/worldwide, women cheat much more than men, and THAT IS GOOD FOR ALL OF US, because if women are happy we all benefit.

He also said on another occasion that women are more mentally evolved than men, which makes me wonder if he has ever been with one (attention whoring and tantrums for minimal things must be the new nirvana of maturity).

Oh, and these remarks almost got a standing ovation from the audience, lots of screams and claps. Utterly ridiculous....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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With no research and no data, this 'psychologist' states something ridiculous (which basically you must if you want to be on television).

Why do you watch this sh*t? Worse, why do you believe it?
 

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Mike32ct said:
He's stirring the pot for ratings.
It can be that, but this was actually at late night, the guy really thinks what he says... he is the supplicating kind of guy. It's scary that men can think like this.
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
Well, many times when fellow sosuavers complain about feminism and media I think to myself to be a poor excuse for their lack of success. But although my position remains, it's clear that something really fvcked up must be going.

One pyschologist on national TV said that because we live in a democratic society if men cheat, women should also be able to cheat. And while he defended that people who love do not cheat he also recognized that many people don't love, and cheating is a way of experimenting and find a new love .

Now the "bomb": He said that while this makes men furious (almost as we should accept it, passively) globally/worldwide, women cheat much more than men, and THAT IS GOOD FOR ALL OF US, because if women are happy we all benefit.

He also said on another occasion that women are more mentally evolved than men, which makes me wonder if he has ever been with one (attention whoring and tantrums for minimal things must be the new nirvana of maturity).

Oh, and these remarks almost got a standing ovation from the audience, lots of screams and claps. Utterly ridiculous....
Do you have a link to the video or article?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I reached a conclusion on women years ago. Regardless how feminist a woman is, they all love the feeling of a hard dlck going in and out of their moist pvssy and getting fvcked very roughly that they beg you to fvck them harder and balls deep.

They want to be fvcked all the time.
 
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RagingBalls said:
I reached a conclusion on women years ago. Regardless how feminist a woman is, they all love the feeling of a hard dlck going in and out of their moist pvssy and getting fvcked very roughly that they beg you to fvck them harder and balls deep.

They want to be fvcked all the time.

:crackup: hilarious my friend hilarious! and so very true.
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
It can be that, but this was actually at late night, the guy really thinks what he says... he is the supplicating kind of guy. It's scary that men can think like this.
Yeah, it's certainly possible that he really thinks this way. All I'm saying is that he probably knows it's a controversial view, and he's using it to his advantage.

But your original point is well taken. As scary as it sounds, guys like that exist.
 
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