She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Don't waste your time.spesmilitis said:I'm tempted to write on their messege board and talk sense into them, but I'm too lazy.
That isn't laziness. It's WisdomMagnuM said:Don't waste your time.
Laziness ftw in this case :rockon:
Kidfabulous said:"ill start. i will keep all names disclosed. well i met this girl on facebook, beautiful and very funny and nice. then i promised to take her out to play golf, out to dinner and hang out with her all the time. so i stood by her when her tool boyfriend treated her like ****. when she cried i walked with her to talk things out and tried to help her out as best i can. whe she and her friends wanted to get drunk, i bought them alcohol, like spent 25 on them, which i dont mind doing if i get some gratitude.and i got nothing, they drank then left. so they broke up and then i came in to help her. then i hear that my other friend (a girl) told me that she was looking for a nice guy. and she brought my name up and she was like um hes too good of a friend. and guys we know what that means now thanks to mia, I WANT A NICE GUY BUT I STILL LOVE *******S THAT TREAT ME LIKE ****. the end"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Oh dear, this really is pathetic. It reads like a laundry list of everything you should do if you want to be classed as a chump for the rest of your life. I'm wondering whether the Bible should have a section about how NOT to be a Don Juan - it would be useful for newbies to identify what makes an AFC. This would be right under the definition on NON-DON JUANISM.Kidfabulous said:"ill start. i will keep all names disclosed. well i met this girl on facebook, beautiful and very funny and nice. then i promised to take her out to play golf, out to dinner and hang out with her all the time. so i stood by her when her tool boyfriend treated her like ****. when she cried i walked with her to talk things out and tried to help her out as best i can. whe she and her friends wanted to get drunk, i bought them alcohol, like spent 25 on them, which i dont mind doing if i get some gratitude.and i got nothing, they drank then left. so they broke up and then i came in to help her. then i hear that my other friend (a girl) told me that she was looking for a nice guy. and she brought my name up and she was like um hes too good of a friend. and guys we know what that means now thanks to mia, I WANT A NICE GUY BUT I STILL LOVE *******S THAT TREAT ME LIKE ****. the end"
I always do that if they're in my network. If they have a boyfriend listed or if they're a liberal, I won't even bother with them. Favorite shows including "Grey's Anatomy" or "Sex in the City" are also minor turnoffs.he immediately pulled up her profile on Facebook to further learn more about her. I refused to look.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Heads up if you ever come to California. About 90% of the girls list liberal.Obsidian said:I always do that if they're in my network. If they have a boyfriend listed or if they're a liberal, I won't even bother with them.
Typical young LSE girl who needs and seeks validation from AFC's while banging guys that treat her like crap.Kidfabulous said:hahahahaaa!!!
Here is one of their experiences... I do feel somewhat for them. They need to find some self-confidence.
"ill start. i will keep all names disclosed. well i met this girl on facebook, beautiful and very funny and nice. then i promised to take her out to play golf, out to dinner and hang out with her all the time. so i stood by her when her tool boyfriend treated her like ****. when she cried i walked with her to talk things out and tried to help her out as best i can. whe she and her friends wanted to get drunk, i bought them alcohol, like spent 25 on them, which i dont mind doing if i get some gratitude.and i got nothing, they drank then left. so they broke up and then i came in to help her. then i hear that my other friend (a girl) told me that she was looking for a nice guy. and she brought my name up and she was like um hes too good of a friend. and guys we know what that means now thanks to mia, I WANT A NICE GUY BUT I STILL LOVE *******S THAT TREAT ME LIKE ****. the end"