"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the most inspirational article you have ever read?

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I started doing this new routine. Every morning i would wake up and fall back asleep, now i force myself to get out of bed and read one article that inspires me for the rest of the day. So far all i have is the uplifting material section in the DJB, which is a good start. I want you guys to post your inspirational articles here! I always need a good read before the day begins.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I used to do a routine like you, OP, but it didn't work for me. I got REAL tired of motivational videos pretty quickly. There's only so much to be said about motivation, and it gets old.

That rush you get when you see something inspiring like Al Pacino's Any Given Sunday speech feels fwcking awesome, but it's not what'll get you committed to success. That emotion is too volatile. You need something deeper, more intrinsic, more instinctual - like eating and breathing - not something that you have to externally remind yourself of constantly.
 

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only 5 hours of sleep per night is going to burn you out, real quick. Look, guys, you don't need millions of $ to retire, and why bust your butt every day, for decades after you COULD have been taking it easy? It's quite feasible to retire on just 100k, right here in the UsA, and with some care and some luck, you can get started on it with just 50k of your own money and some from a bank, plus a lot of labor and time spent supervising others. you can easily have 50k in your pocket, after 2 years, starting with nothing, if you'll drive a big truck over the road, and LIVE in it, or in an old van back at "base". 100k after 3 years is guaranteed, if you go at it correctly. 1 year after having 100k to invest, you will be clearing 50k a year, without doing a thing, except checking in with your property management people now and then. In the time it takes you to get a bachelor's degree, you can be all set. if you count the overtime, then that;'s the 2-3 years you'd spend doing nothing but pay off your college loans. you wanna be free to travel the world and do what you want at age 25, or still busting your hump at age 65? it's your choice.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I read some of Sammo's posts on Motivation (in the High School forum). These are fricking gold and got me started on, well, everything.

I managed to start working out, and would soon realize that I actually CAN achieve things that I want. All my drive since then has been fueled by this experience.
 

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Huffman said:
I read some of Sammo's posts on Motivation (in the High School forum). These are fricking gold and got me started on, well, everything.

I managed to start working out, and would soon realize that I actually CAN achieve things that I want. All my drive since then has been fueled by this experience.
Those are great ah man the HS forum is killing it unlike the depressed DJ Discussion lol
 

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sageproduct said:
I used to do a routine like you, OP, but it didn't work for me. I got REAL tired of motivational videos pretty quickly. There's only so much to be said about motivation, and it gets old.

That rush you get when you see something inspiring like Al Pacino's Any Given Sunday speech feels fwcking awesome, but it's not what'll get you committed to success. That emotion is too volatile. You need something deeper, more intrinsic, more instinctual - like eating and breathing - not something that you have to externally remind yourself of constantly.
This. This is the best post in this thread. Fuck motivational & inspirational bullshit. This you need to find in the depths of your soul, it has to come from within. :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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