"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Most Important Thing!

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THe most important thing whaa? Yes that is what it is 2 me ! I tried everythin on this sight, i read the neil strauss game whatever I could find 2 help me with the ladies... Ye i did i was really good with the ladies, reallY! Id probably give my self an 8.5 maybe lolz but thats besides the point YE so i was good with the ladies, was gettin in their pants whatever but somethin was missing.....SOmethin more important, i felt like there was a big part of me missin and i realized that i have been workin on somethin that is not as important.. I felt like a looser and i was a looser. Just cause i was good with the ladiest don mean ****.... iz nothin special but whats special 2 me was a sense of accomplishment and purpose nam sayin? I felt like this is how the rest of my life was goin 2 be just getin a bunch of ladies and fucin them... But then one day i noticed that I really am nothin SPECIAL!
There a lot of guys that wants 2 get a lot of girls and nice house and cars but they dont work on somethin in them that is the most important.
YOUR CHARACTER ? Now what do i mean by that? it iz your everythin that makes you, your strenght, your courage, How Smart you are and so on.. etc there are Infinite things you can work on your self...
SO WHAT IM SAYING IS THAT WE FOCUS 2 MUCH ON GIRLS! THAT MEANS WE CANT ****ING CONTROL OUR HOROMONES WHICH IS FUCIN REDICILOUS!
I NOTICED THAT THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS BESIDES GIRLS THAT IFIND A LOTTA JOY IN! I thought that when i get a gf and start fucin them my life was goi n2 change... BUT IT DIDNT! there were so many things missin..
I was stil lthe same as the time i didn have girls even when iw as gettin girls...
SURE I had a nice body and looked good and everything but there were no ACCOMPLISHMENTS!
I heard that humans had 28,000 days 2 live and i had a very close 2 death experience LOLZ believe it or not.... I was sick with something and almost died.. no bs..
But that is besides the point after that experience my life was just different... To me girls were not important at all... I REALIZED THAT I WAS LOOKING AT THEM JUST FOR THEIR FLESH! Not because of how much fun or joy we could have had... I was lookin at an illusion and on somethin that is nOT REAL! I was so fucin stupid i thought buyin me cool new items or goin 2 get a really hob chick was goin 2 make me happy but it didnt... What made me happy was doin and focusin on what is real in this life.. and to me it is joy ? you see where i am goin with this ? I started workin for my cousin because i always loved fashion, then i had so much joy after succeeding !! it was like a feelin that ihave been missin all my life! That feelin where you are like i COULD DO THIS FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE! So i found what makes me happy and really feel like accomplished.. WHat i had now was character, love, joy and i saw what is real !!! GUYS THE MATERIALS AND GIRLS ARE NOT REAL THINGS YALL ARE BRAINWASHED!....What is real is doi nwhat makes you feel good and doin what is RIGHT! WTF This guy talkin about doin what is right? We do whatever we like and we feel good 2... ABut ye the things we are focusin on only gives us MOMENTARY JOY im talkin about JOY That is FOREVER and for me that was helpin other people out and seeint them put on my designer clothes LOLZ SO THE POINT OF THIS LONG ASS POST IS WORK ON YOURSELF THE MOST! Dont just go after girls and think its going 2 GIVE YOU JOY !! Because it does but only MOMENTARY I Promise you, EVERYTHING WE DO IN THIS LIFE IS BECAUSE WE WANT PLEASURE!!! AND WHAT GIVES YOU THE MOST PLEASURE IS A SELF OF ACCOMPLISHMENT AND PURPOSE! Please realize that this is important.. AND that your life is going 2 be so much fuller if you look at what is real and do what is real!!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mate you need to learn how to structure posts. No-one will read this, I guarantee it.
 

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ye but i just wrote whatever came outta my head, will surely do some more work on how to construct it lolz what eva as long as you get the point!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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