"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Most Important Thing

Rex Man

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You know, it's funny, i always see these guys who have horrible luck with women looking for that one cure. I see it both in some of my friends and many people on this forum. One romantically-inclined pal recently asked me (for the umpteenth time) what he was doing wrong. I was about to tell him a whole list of things that he wouldn't listen to; and then it hit me, the most important thing just it me like the smell of carnivals port-a-potty.

Only he could determine the most important thing by answering one simple question; What is the question, the answer to which, would change everything? Read that again and make sure you understand the question.

Now for all the geniuses out there, this may take a little reflection but it's definitely worth it. Do this: look back at all your experiences with women, if there is one question that permeates through all the encounters, that is the most important thing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok. But how would you figure out that question?
 

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Rex Man said:
Only he could determine the most important thing by answering one simple question; What is the question, the answer to which, would change everything?
Do you believe in yourself/believe that you're unlucky???
 
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