"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Most Important Concept In Seduction?

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one of the most impactul concept in seduction is the INVOLVEMENT concept

a few years FRENCH SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGIST NICOLAS GUGUEN ( VANNES UNIVERSITY ) carried out a few intersting experiments about invovement and seduction

he had varios students ( in this small town by the sea in NORTH WEST FRANCE ) approach women and ask them for an "easy street " then they d ask for their digits

6 WOMEN OUT OF 80 GAVE THEIR DIGITS

In the next experiment he had the students approach various women with a streetmap on the street and ask them for a difficult location

at the same time the d say there were students new to the town and they were flatvisiting for the day and got the women to make full use of the map

finally they d thanked the woman and asked for their digits ( for a future coffee invite )

well 41 WOMEN OUT 80 GAVE THEIR DIGITS

THAT CONFIRMS THE INVOLVEMENT CONCEPT IF THE CHICK FEELS " VALUED SHE IS MUCH MORE ENCLINED TO GIVE HER DETAILS



NICOLAS GUEGUEN 100 PETITES EXPERIENCES DE PSYCHOLOGIE DE LA SEDUCTION

ALSO CHECK OUT NICOLAS GUEGUEN on GOOGLE
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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getting a womens number is simple as long as you are cool and decent looking. getting her to answer the call or call you and stuff is the harder part.
 

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getting a womens number is simple as long as you are cool and decent looking
No, no, you have to have the map.
You want to appear lost, not "cool and decent looking".

:)
 

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Usually I'd make fun of ALPHAROMEO and his crazy magic tricks and prop act to pick up a girl. But he's right here. But don't worry, it hasn't got anything to do with a map, or asking for directions, it's all about investing.

These girls feel the NEED to go out with you, because they have invested a much larger amount of time in you, than if you just said "Hi Gimme ur number". Get a girl in a good fun 10 minute convo with you and she Won't be able to say no to giving you her number. The more time a girl invests in you, the more she fears losing you.
 

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Rapport

thanks CAPTAIN J for agreeing with me ( by the way i don t mind you taking the piss out of me it s all done in good spirits )

as you might all know by now ( if you ve been kind enough to read me ) i believe in using or asking 4 prescripted questions (+ 2 negs -always the same negs , always the same Qs
- i naturally freeflow between the Qs if given the oppurtunity ) in order to get the convo going and get rapport
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thedude4242 said:
getting a womens number is simple as long as you are cool and decent looking. getting her to answer the call or call you and stuff is the harder part.
fully agree
 

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candy floss

i have actually used BRAD P s opener the candyfloss opener with great succe"ss check it out on GOOGLE

BRAD P s arguably the best seduction teacher on the net
 
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