"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Most Important Concept In Seduction?

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one of the most impactul concept in seduction is the INVOLVEMENT concept

a few years FRENCH SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGIST NICOLAS GUGUEN ( VANNES UNIVERSITY ) carried out a few intersting experiments about invovement and seduction

he had varios students ( in this small town by the sea in NORTH WEST FRANCE ) approach women and ask them for an "easy street " then they d ask for their digits

6 WOMEN OUT OF 80 GAVE THEIR DIGITS

In the next experiment he had the students approach various women with a streetmap on the street and ask them for a difficult location

at the same time the d say there were students new to the town and they were flatvisiting for the day and got the women to make full use of the map

finally they d thanked the woman and asked for their digits ( for a future coffee invite )

well 41 WOMEN OUT 80 GAVE THEIR DIGITS

THAT CONFIRMS THE INVOLVEMENT CONCEPT IF THE CHICK FEELS " VALUED SHE IS MUCH MORE ENCLINED TO GIVE HER DETAILS



NICOLAS GUEGUEN 100 PETITES EXPERIENCES DE PSYCHOLOGIE DE LA SEDUCTION

ALSO CHECK OUT NICOLAS GUEGUEN on GOOGLE
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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getting a womens number is simple as long as you are cool and decent looking. getting her to answer the call or call you and stuff is the harder part.
 

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getting a womens number is simple as long as you are cool and decent looking
No, no, you have to have the map.
You want to appear lost, not "cool and decent looking".

:)
 

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Usually I'd make fun of ALPHAROMEO and his crazy magic tricks and prop act to pick up a girl. But he's right here. But don't worry, it hasn't got anything to do with a map, or asking for directions, it's all about investing.

These girls feel the NEED to go out with you, because they have invested a much larger amount of time in you, than if you just said "Hi Gimme ur number". Get a girl in a good fun 10 minute convo with you and she Won't be able to say no to giving you her number. The more time a girl invests in you, the more she fears losing you.
 

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thanks CAPTAIN J for agreeing with me ( by the way i don t mind you taking the piss out of me it s all done in good spirits )

as you might all know by now ( if you ve been kind enough to read me ) i believe in using or asking 4 prescripted questions (+ 2 negs -always the same negs , always the same Qs
- i naturally freeflow between the Qs if given the oppurtunity ) in order to get the convo going and get rapport
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thedude4242 said:
getting a womens number is simple as long as you are cool and decent looking. getting her to answer the call or call you and stuff is the harder part.
fully agree
 

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candy floss

i have actually used BRAD P s opener the candyfloss opener with great succe"ss check it out on GOOGLE

BRAD P s arguably the best seduction teacher on the net
 
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