"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok. Forget about all the nonsense that is spewed on this site and the PUA community on techniques designed to pick up women. Forget about peackocking, framing and all of the voodoo hokus pokus that is advanced by some.

For me at least its come to the least common denominator after experimenting with different techniques.

This is it:

1. Look for IOIs from the female. You must be adept in detecting, through a woman's body language, whether shes interested in you. Ive become an expert through trial an error and can with about 90% probability determine whether a chick digs me or not.

2. Once I determine her interest I ask 3 simple questions. They are:

a) Are you married? If she answers yes. Then stop there and proceed no futher. If she answers no then ask

b) Do you have a boyfriend? Same thing. If she answers yes. Then proceed no further. If no then TELL HER

c) Give me your number. I will call you so we can go out sometime. I then leave whatever venue Im in rather than stick around and overstay my welcome.

I then proceed to call within a couple of days.

This direct approach has been working like a charm. This past week Ive lined up dates with three women Ive met at the bank, the bookstore and at the supermarket.

Im not a believer in cold approaches. Before I approach, I have to get signals like good eye contact.

Once I have a sense of a females attraction I dont hesitate. I just dive in.

Will keep you guys posted on my new experiment but it seems to be working quite well.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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On that science time bro

gaspipe said:
Ok. Forget about all the nonsense that is spewed on this site and the PUA community on techniques designed to pick up women.. Forget about peackocking, framing and all of the voodoo hokus pokus that is advanced by some.

For me at least its come to the least common denominator after experimenting with different techniques.

This is it:

1. Look for IOIs from the female. You must be adept in detecting, through a womwn's body language, whether shes interested in you. Ive become an expert through trial an errtor and canm with about 90% probability detrmine whether a chick digs me or not.

Some girls are just as good at this **** though. I don't think I need to worry too much, I'm only in high school; thing is though--I think--that many girls can fake attraction, lead you on, ALL that good stuff. Things I personally look for are dilated pupils, "faces" that are smiling rather than only "mouths" so to speak. If you have any more please tell me....I'd like to think I can read body language well but I Have a lot to learn. So just a newbie asking a veteran for tips. :))

2. Once I determine her interest I ask 3 simple questions. They are:

a) Are you married? If she answers yes. Then stop there and poceed no futher. If she answers no then ask

b) Do you have a boyfriend? Same thing. If she answers yes. Then proceed no further. If no then TELL HER

c) Give me your number. I will call you so we can go out sometime. I then leave whatever venue Im in rather than stick around and overstay my welcome.
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I then proceed to call within a couple of days.

This direct approach has been working like a charm. This past week Ive lined up dates with three women Ive met at the bank, the bookstore and at the supermarket. Yeah a girl asked me, "So you gonna take me home?" I responded

"You gonna give me that ass?"

When I'm direct though it's usually because I don't care what I say, not always because I'm confident :p


Im not a believer in cold approaches. Before I approach, I have to get signals like good eye contact.

Once I have a sense of a females attraction I dont hesitate. I just dive in.

I'm trying to reach that strage too

Will keep you guys posted on my new experiment but it seems to be working quite well.
 

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gaspipe said:
Ok. Forget about all the nonsense that is spewed on this site and the PUA community on techniques designed to pick up women. Forget about peackocking, framing and all of the voodoo hokus pokus that is advanced by some.

For me at least its come to the least common denominator after experimenting with different techniques.

This is it:

1. Look for IOIs from the female. You must be adept in detecting, through a woman's body language, whether shes interested in you. Ive become an expert through trial an error and can with about 90% probability determine whether a chick digs me or not.
Can you elaborate on Number 1 - some specifics (or a reference to some). Thanks.
 
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