"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The most efficient and effective means of picking up a chick

gaspipe

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Ok. Forget about all the nonsense that is spewed on this site and the PUA community on techniques designed to pick up women. Forget about peackocking, framing and all of the voodoo hokus pokus that is advanced by some.

For me at least its come to the least common denominator after experimenting with different techniques.

This is it:

1. Look for IOIs from the female. You must be adept in detecting, through a woman's body language, whether shes interested in you. Ive become an expert through trial an error and can with about 90% probability determine whether a chick digs me or not.

2. Once I determine her interest I ask 3 simple questions. They are:

a) Are you married? If she answers yes. Then stop there and proceed no futher. If she answers no then ask

b) Do you have a boyfriend? Same thing. If she answers yes. Then proceed no further. If no then TELL HER

c) Give me your number. I will call you so we can go out sometime. I then leave whatever venue Im in rather than stick around and overstay my welcome.

I then proceed to call within a couple of days.

This direct approach has been working like a charm. This past week Ive lined up dates with three women Ive met at the bank, the bookstore and at the supermarket.

Im not a believer in cold approaches. Before I approach, I have to get signals like good eye contact.

Once I have a sense of a females attraction I dont hesitate. I just dive in.

Will keep you guys posted on my new experiment but it seems to be working quite well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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On that science time bro

gaspipe said:
Ok. Forget about all the nonsense that is spewed on this site and the PUA community on techniques designed to pick up women.. Forget about peackocking, framing and all of the voodoo hokus pokus that is advanced by some.

For me at least its come to the least common denominator after experimenting with different techniques.

This is it:

1. Look for IOIs from the female. You must be adept in detecting, through a womwn's body language, whether shes interested in you. Ive become an expert through trial an errtor and canm with about 90% probability detrmine whether a chick digs me or not.

Some girls are just as good at this **** though. I don't think I need to worry too much, I'm only in high school; thing is though--I think--that many girls can fake attraction, lead you on, ALL that good stuff. Things I personally look for are dilated pupils, "faces" that are smiling rather than only "mouths" so to speak. If you have any more please tell me....I'd like to think I can read body language well but I Have a lot to learn. So just a newbie asking a veteran for tips. :))

2. Once I determine her interest I ask 3 simple questions. They are:

a) Are you married? If she answers yes. Then stop there and poceed no futher. If she answers no then ask

b) Do you have a boyfriend? Same thing. If she answers yes. Then proceed no further. If no then TELL HER

c) Give me your number. I will call you so we can go out sometime. I then leave whatever venue Im in rather than stick around and overstay my welcome.
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I then proceed to call within a couple of days.

This direct approach has been working like a charm. This past week Ive lined up dates with three women Ive met at the bank, the bookstore and at the supermarket. Yeah a girl asked me, "So you gonna take me home?" I responded

"You gonna give me that ass?"

When I'm direct though it's usually because I don't care what I say, not always because I'm confident :p


Im not a believer in cold approaches. Before I approach, I have to get signals like good eye contact.

Once I have a sense of a females attraction I dont hesitate. I just dive in.

I'm trying to reach that strage too

Will keep you guys posted on my new experiment but it seems to be working quite well.
 

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gaspipe said:
Ok. Forget about all the nonsense that is spewed on this site and the PUA community on techniques designed to pick up women. Forget about peackocking, framing and all of the voodoo hokus pokus that is advanced by some.

For me at least its come to the least common denominator after experimenting with different techniques.

This is it:

1. Look for IOIs from the female. You must be adept in detecting, through a woman's body language, whether shes interested in you. Ive become an expert through trial an error and can with about 90% probability determine whether a chick digs me or not.
Can you elaborate on Number 1 - some specifics (or a reference to some). Thanks.
 
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