the most DISGUSTING flake i ever had

[Jetleg]

so i met this girl on tinder. she isn't that pretty but she was ok.
had her number, then we texted a few days and setted up a meeting (nothing too special, just for a coffee).
She canceled on me on the first time 5 hours before the date but suggested an alternative , i texted her a few hours later: "i think it should work", knowing there is probably a 50/50 chance she will flake again, but thats fine.

on the day of the meeting she started texting me A LOT, she was really exited about the date - i barely texted her back. then she asks for my last name and tells me to accept her friendship request on FB.

she tells me 5 minutes later that she doesn't think its gonna be a good date, and that she is tired.

me: whatever you want
She: i'm sorry, its not based on your FB pictures, i swear
me: i never forced you on a date, i wish you all the best, it was nice talking to you.

then she texts like another 10 messages that its not because of my looks, and she just thinks there won't be a "connection" between us,

her last message was: maybe we could meet up sometime, that is if your not upset with me, i guess i feel insecure today
(or something like that)

Of course i dont really mind that she falked but honestly, what a b!tch, i never had ANYTHING like this, i'm really pissed off.
I'm a foreigner in the country i live in, so i'm ok with the fact that some women are not into that, but how rude can you be?

 

[Alpheta]

tbh i think that was good of her.

Unlike other bishes who make dumb excuses and keep tagging you along.

 

[Jetleg]

she knew exactly how i look, i had enough pictures on tinder.
it seemed like she just wanted some attention, or she just had many other options.

the thing is - i hate wasting my time on those dumb p*ssies. i'm already selecting the ones that are not that interested.

 

[KingBeef]

Screening women for bad behavior is key. Once you become an expert you will almost "subconsciously" filter right thru them and see who's worthy of going out with you.

You should stop wasting your time with 6's that have already shown you flaky behavior. IMO, From what I'm reading i felt she was calling some of the shots and she did lie to you when she said "it's not about your looks/pics" (she probably was 50/50 from the get go, showed your pics to her girlfriends and they dismissed you.....you didn't get their approval) If you are a man of strong self worth and character....ACT LIKE IT, DEMAND IT..

 

[kraytkiller]

Don't use FB for this reason. I shut mine down to increase mystery. In person you could've overcome looks, online all she has is an opportunity to judge you.

 

[Young OG]

All good replies so far. I want to add that if it was me, I would have said I only accept requests on fb if I know the person very well or something like that. Make sure your fb is private too. Only friends can see your pics.

 

[pyros]

I dont see the problem.

She flaked...ok, but at least she texted you to let you know she didn't feel like meeting up.
Anyway, she had a look at your profile and she did not like it that much.

In short, she was not sure and looking at your fb finished you off.

 

[G_Govan]

Using OLD will always be disadvantageous.

Lets call it what it is, a buffer against face-to-face rejection. Approaching for some of us is uncomfortable but it will always yield the best results.

It's like playing the stock market short term. The riskiest investments yield the highest returns if they work out. However, getting rejected is a lot more salvageable then losing a ton of cash.