Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The most demoralizing rejection to shake off

guru1000

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What's all this analysis? One day, four days, a week .... who gives a fvck? If she's interested enough, it doesn't matter when you call. And the more you care about when to call, the less likely she will be interested when you do call. Therein is the rub, a self-perpetuating loop you ensconce yourself in--because you care too much incited by your scarcity frame. YOU call when YOU want to call.

Ok, so you were rejected. Now stop being a bvtch. Soldier on to the next 1000 women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i agree with guru, if the girl didnt text you first (very unlikely from high interest level chicks) and if she doesnt respond after you get ahold of her, then she just isnt interested anymore. She may come back around, but your goal should be to work on other girls. You should be doing this anyways and then you wouldnt care if this one responded or not. Sounds like you are only spinning one plate here
 

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Rejection Is A Prerequisite to GREATNESS

Yannick, the transcendent warriors of life use rejection as fuel, not roadblocks. As to achieve GREATNESS in any facet of life, one must have the will, tenacity, and resiliency to fight for his passions and beliefs irrespective of what the world tells him.

Life is a worthy adversary as it will challenge you and your biggest insecurities when you are at your weakest to test the substance of which you are made, to separate the kings from the bourgeois. Victory goes to those who have wrestled with this worthy adversary and took what they wanted despite their myriad "beatings." Kings direct life as they do not fear, nor are they consumed by, rejection. Instead, they embrace rejection.

I dare women to reject me. And the greater I dare, the more success chases me.
 

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guru1000 said:
Yannick, the transcendent warriors of life use rejection as fuel, not roadblocks. As to achieve GREATNESS in any facet of life, one must have the will, tenacity, and resiliency to fight for his passions and beliefs irrespective of what the world tells him.

Life is a worthy adversary as it will challenge you and your biggest insecurities when you are at your weakest to test the substance of which you are made, to separate the kings from the bourgeois. Victory goes to those who have wrestled with this worthy adversary and took what they wanted despite their myriad "beatings." Kings direct life as they do not fear, nor are they consumed by, rejection. Instead, they embrace rejection.

I dare women to reject me. And the greater I dare, the more success chases me.
guru, i hope you dont look down on me for this, im an objective, open minded, nonjudgemental person for the most part, but you are wasting your time with this one. and i dont like to be negative. but until he chooses to walk the path, yannick will never make real progress. how can he? he hates women in his core. he thinks they are no more than a mere robot. in his core belief system he has dehumanized other humans. he is traumatized.

he literally cant pick up women, he WONT, he says it himself, he convinces himself that he doesnt want to..... he is scared to.



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i dont know yannick. before you said you dont wana pick up women,now you say it will be easy? makes no sense

why would you get her number in the first place isnt that chasing women? i guess i could understand if you played her a bit so she gave u it herself but u didnt.

but anyways, as long as u hate women so much, you wont even be able to keep a plate, and the ones u manage to get will be very short of selfrespect. those are not fun types of people to be around. even phucking them isnt as fun.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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