The Most Common Ways Women Test Men and How To Pass Them

[PURE]

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Thanks! I'm sure this topic will help MANY of you...including myself!

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[PURE]

No one?

 

[WatchMeWalk]

Just type the word TESTS in the search box. There are about 8 pages of threads on this topic.

 

[Derek Flint]

Generally, they will ask you to do stuff for them or they will see how much BS they can get away with while the 2 of you are on a date.

There are other examples, but these are the ones I usually experience.

 

[violator]

They come in a variety of forms, done both consciously and unconcsiously; too long to list.

For instance, she may want to test your interest in her. In this case how often you call or ask for a date is factored in her evaluation. How to pass? Don't be too much of a challange. Call her at least once a week and date her at least that much. But, don't call or show too much interest either.

Another test I have encountered is the jealousy test. She will mention other guys that are interested in her and how "hot" they are, etc. Or, if you see her somewhere, she will divert her attention to another guy to guage your reaction. How to pass? Act like it does not bother you at all. The moment you start showing jealousy or possessiveness, you fail the test.

Of course the classic test, I call the "how much will you kiss my ass" test. Basically, she will test your manliness or lack thereof by telling you to do things. If you supplicate, you fail the test.

There are others, but I cannot list them all. The ones above are generally the most obvious ones you will encounter.

 

[Starman]

good examples violator,

but the calling once a week..that has to be reciprocated no?

If she dosnt call back..I dont see how calling once a week is OK

also..the ****y/funny..if you are too nice..and dont bust on her a little..you will fail her ****y/funny test..

I guess overall..all these tests sum up to "Is he willing to walk away or will he be my little chump?"

and you have to do everything you can to show her..that you WILL walk away and never look back..in both your actions and words

 

[violator]

Good points, Starman.

Of course she has to reciprocate. If you call and she doesn't call back or never initiates, then she is nexted in my book. I think it is human to feel wanted, so if we don't sense that the other person is interested, it really messes up the relationship.

The willing to walk away is very important, especially when she starts taking you for granted. I noticed that when you give a girl too much attention, her IL drops because she thinks she "has" you. The moment you make it known that you have other options or that she is slipping away, her IL will shoot up.

Generally, unless I am pretty sure that a girl is genuinely interested in me, I will not put up with the little games she plays.

 

[BrWnSugaMan]

*Cute + flirty way* "BrWnSugaMan, will you be a dear and go get me some water?" (said infront of her female friends to try and show-off what kind of power she exerts over me).

ME: Maybe, some other time (turn away start talking to some other chick).

 

[Starman]

thats everymans perfect scenario..but there isnt always another HB right next to you..to do that ehe

I would have said .. "Sure Im actually on my way to the bathroom..I will get you some from there"