You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nice going. Didn't know "Location:RO" was a state.BigJimbo said:
So you believe whatever you read on an Internet forum? No wonder you have issues. He IS NOT living in Romania. I can promise you that. There is NO WAY. His English is Americanized. Trust me, he is an immigrant boy.JustLurk said:
Don't like Gypsy d---. Romanian girls are the pits of Eastern Europe. They are a mix of Gypsy and Turk.ChalengeGuyFan said:Except I'm European; Eastern European.
And you have a thing for Eastern Europeans.
You'd suck my d!ck, wouldn't you BJ?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Nice going!BigJimbo said:
Better than being a 5'2" Asian American dude named Winston, living in Russia, like you.BigJimbo said:
He is not Winston.cordoncordon said:Better than being a 5'2" Asian American dude named Winston, living in Russia, like you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lol what is wrong with you?BigJimbo said:
What? There are 11 time zones in Russia. Get a map. Travel. I am an American. I don't deny that. I am VERY glad I was born in California. I don't deny that. My point is that for straight American guys life in parts of this world is just better.ChalengeGuyFan said:He is not Winston.
Since he mentioned my posting hours I checked his, as well.
It's not me who's posting at 4 a.m. Romanian time (GMT+2), but him. That would be after 5 a.m. in Russia (up to 10 a.m.) or after 9 p.m. on the East Coast, until after midnight.
Draw the conclusions yourselves.
@tavi: ce craci!
I am not Winston. He pumps his site as much as you pump penny stocks. You come here because they laughed you off the horse betting sites.cordoncordon said:Better than being a 5'2" Asian American dude named Winston, living in Russia, like you.
As far as the original girl in this thread, yes she is pretty, but something about her looks to "manly" for me. I don't know.
I still say that before she lost too much weight recently, this girl, and we all know who it is, is by far without a doubt the closest girl to perfection I have ever seen. Perfect body, perfect hair, and oh those blue eyes. And a good attitude to boot from what I can tell.
http://dailyworldtrends.com/wp-cont...an-Fox-Aborts-Black-Baby-Rumors-Confirmed.jpg
http://i.cdn.turner.com/si/2009/images/04/22/megan-fox.jpg
cordoncordon said:Better than being a 5'2" Asian American dude named Winston, living in Russia, like you.
As far as the original girl in this thread, yes she is pretty, but something about her looks to "manly" for me. I don't know.
I still say that before she lost too much weight recently, this girl, and we all know who it is, is by far without a doubt the closest girl to perfection I have ever seen. Perfect body, perfect hair, and oh those blue eyes. And a good attitude to boot from what I can tell.
http://dailyworldtrends.com/wp-cont...an-Fox-Aborts-Black-Baby-Rumors-Confirmed.jpg
http://i.cdn.turner.com/si/2009/images/04/22/megan-fox.jpg
Well, looking for validation from the Net is sad. Seriously. I could really give a damn about who any of you date or will date. Just like I hope you could give a damn about who I date. This could be a nice site for sharing ideas. Instead it is a place where sad characters brag about how great they are (penny stock threads).Bluntmaster said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Oh, I think you do care. A LOT. Otherwise you wouldn't keep trying to validate how "hot" all of the Eastern Euro girls are, or in your case, the hookers that you hire. I mean, just about every post you make, has something to do with Eastern Europe and how great it is. To the point it borders on the verge of compulsive insanity. No, forget that, it is insanity. You live your life for that. Sounds like you changed your entire existence for that. That is ALL you talk about, that is ALL that your entire life seems to revolve around.BigJimbo said:
If mines a 6, yours is a 2. Just sayin'. But hey, as long as your happy.Bluntmaster said:
cordoncordon said:If mines a 6, yours is a 2. Just sayin'. But hey, as long as your happy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.