"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The most amazing AFC behavior I've ever seen

49au

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I have a couple of friends who are mid-thirties. They have been a couple now for about a year or so.

The woman has an ex who she claims is now gay. The ex is apparently decent looking but very wealthy. He goes to Vegas or Nassau at least once a month to play blackjack and she goes with him. They stay in the same room.

And somehow, she has convinced her boyfriend that her ex cannot know that she has a boyfriend because it would hurt him. When she's around her ex, she refers to her bf as her "friend", and her boyfriend knows that. I heard them discussing it the other night.

So to recap, this guy:

- allows his gf to go off on regular trips to Vegas or the Bahamas with her ex
- accepts that she will not tell her ex that she has a boyfriend

Unreal.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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women haze

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I don't believe you...no one is that much of a puss....
 

Echoes

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I'm a recovering AFC but maybe I'm not as bad as I thought. She would get kicked to the curb HARD in less than 3 seconds.

That is just sad.
 

konmai

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Possible. My friend who is a girl had her bf do the same thing 'cause his roommate liked her. Not sure if that is a legit excuse.
 
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