"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The most AFC thing I've ever read

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http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=289966

This is just so staggeringly AFC. Please guys, to help him. I hate that guys get this bad off. I used to think like that and never wish that on anybody. That's why I like taking newbies under my wing and bringing them up to speed, so they don't have to suffer like I did.

Anyway, I tried to guide him, but he needs all the help he can get. If more people can show him the light, maybe after being inundated with guidance he'll have a change of heart and do something about his predicament.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If alpha males have such an advantage in passing on their genes then why are there far more beta males than alpha males?

If your theory were true, the beta males would have been bred out of the gene pool a long time ago--or at least they would be the minority.
 

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Why is it AFC?

The guy is telling it how it is.

If you are average looking then your success rate will be a lot lower than someone that looks like a model.
 
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ok time out...

you guys are talking as if AFC's are a completey diferent species or something,

In my opinion some people are just stuck in their ways, afc or non afc
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First thing I noticed was his avatar was from harry potter...i didnt bother reading the rest, that summed it up.
 

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He actually makes a bit of sense. The truth is that you have to attract a Girl SOMEHOW. He's *****ing about the fact that he doesn't have looks and he thinks looks is the best way to get a girl. Whether tahts true or not is open to debate.

But the basic truth is solid, you've got to attract them somehow, be it, looks,money, personality, behavior (what this site focuses on) and so on.
 

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DonS said:
You are right in a way, but a large portion of AFC's end up raising another males children; knowingly or not. 30% of all children aren't fathered by the male listed on the birth certificate.

Either way, AFCism is in some ways a successful mating strategy.
An AFC could sire some children in a relationship while being cuckolded on others. As long as the AFC is still creaming in his wife's nookie he still has a chance of siring a child- sperm wars at its finest.
 
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DonS said:
Why are you even reading that ****? Why? It is absolute pusssy crap. Do you honestly think you have a shot at saving someone that bad? Riiiiiight.

Some men just weren't meant to breed. Society needs AFC's to supplicate and feed the low-quality woman that can't take care of themselves. Strong men get the well adjusted hotties, and the AFC stays plugged into the matrix FOR A COUPLE THREE DIVORCES until he figures it out. Who else but the AFC would fvcking slave away like a dog to support the low quality fat ass with a pusssy that smells rotten female and her borderline retarded kids that make fun of daddy at mommy's encouragement. And then the smart AFC's figure out after a couple attempts what women are attracted to, but the stupid ones just fvcking sit there like biitches and go get married." LMMFAO.

No use, you can't save them. The ones that wise up will save themselves, but the stupid ones were just meant to be and will be bred out of the gene pool. It's brutal.

Edit: Oh, wait, ever notice how the wives of these AFC's treat them? They ***** and nag on that poor AFC his whole life. She belittles him and laughs at how pathetic he is while she is fvcking every other guy on the block right in front his ass." LOL.
Nutz who are you at that thread?

I agree about his ***** tantrum about his dating life. What an emasculate male he is.... he sounds like the village loser protesting the hero. Why do most of the avatars on that thread appear sad and negative.
 

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Nutz who are you at that thread?

I agree about his ***** tantrum about his dating life. What an emasculate male he is.... he sounds like the village loser protesting the hero. Why do most of the avatars on that thread appear sad and negative.
Nutz. I'm pretty much the only Nutz out there in all the social dynamics related forums.

And that's the best word I've seen for describing the kid: emasculated. Such a shame so many guys are these days. What's worse is many don't even realize it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nutz thanks for posting that. Its for guys like him that I felt I had to set up my own blog. It's downright disgusting that a man can sit there and wallow in his self pity like that. He disqualified himself before he even stepped over. What upsets me is the hopelessness with which he writes. So he's not physically attractive? GO TO THE GYM, by nice clothes, do SOMETHING to make your life better. He should be making his life better anyway and the women will follow.

If he doesn't want date again, fine. let him get bred out of existence in my opinion. Look how much attention he's getting on that threat? like a two year old throwing a tantrum. A damn shame if you ask me.
 
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