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i read this in the bible, that when you noticed your relationship is not ok and that your gf is different with you, giving you bad vibes, you should back off for 2 weeks or more to see what she feels for you.

that could be a win/win situation because:

a) if she comes back is because she still loves you

b) if she doesn't say anything to you and doesnt put an effort to win you back or at least try to understand why u are doing it, is because she wants to be alone, and u saved yourself from a lot of pain

anyone used this back-off tactic. what results did u get?
 

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Yes, it always works like a charm! Even if it doesn't work you save yourself the dignity of kissing her ass and chasing after her. If you take away one thing from these boards, this should be it.

AND DONT EVER FORGET IT!!!!

The problem is that it feels like a leap of faith and many guys (myself included at times) lack the faith in themselves to carry it through as they fear it will cause them to lose her.

I have done this to my ex- for a few weeks and suddenly noticed a power shift in my favour. The fact is I actually don't want anything to do with her any more and want to be rid of her, but it's funny to see how she has started coming round now and what's more, I feel completely liberated and confident again.
 

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The problem is that it feels like a leap of faith and many guys (myself included at times) lack the faith in themselves to carry it through as they fear it will cause them to lose her.

yes i thought about that myself, how hard it is to maintain control when she calls you and u dont answer her phone calls, or even say anything to her. it's really a test to your self-control.
 

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hmmm..seems like im in a similar situation..this girl is the good ol "playing hard to get"..not fallin into that trap...i havent talked to her...she calls me..i miss the call..yada yada..ill never see the sl00t again
 

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Not just in a relationship, you should use this trick all the time. Although when just dating, I wouldnt just back off for weeks. Just show interest sometimes, then others dont call her and let her hang for a few days. Then show interest again, then withdraw again. Works everytime!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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