The more you abuse them, the harder it is to let go.

[tesla8520]

So many women struggle to leave an abusive man.

https://www.reddit.com/r/abusiverelationships/comments/1ocqsut
Notice how many of them say they've broken up and gotten back together more than five times.

No one talks about whether these women had any trauma that led to these dynamics.

Everyone blames the abusive man.

 

[Bigpapa]

It is trauma bonding

most likely they are abusers themselves, or grew up in an abusive environment . Or both

A woman that does not tick any of this will never stay in a dynamic with an abusive guy

 

[plumber]

i have known couples where the man is abusive to the women (physically and mentally). others where the men are strong and kind, and really support the woman. generally it doesn't matter the women still do what they do, only the reasons change.