The more i go out the more stale i get it

[Lostsoul85]

I notice that when i go out more than twice a week

My vibe is stale and i am more value seeking than value giving.

My presence just feels kind of weak and i feel that when i pass that once or twice a week going out at night threshold

I literally feel like i am trying to get something from women and i know they can sense this

My vibe feels the best when i go out to bars not more than once...maybe twice a week

At this frequency i can sense a king of lumonisty within myself that stales out if i try to go out more than 2x a week

When i go out to bars once a week i notice that i am more value giving and i don't feel internally stuck like i do when i go out frequently

Now im also living with my parents and looking for a job..

I am far from being centered and grounded

I am sure this exudes a certain vibe

Tyler from RSD says that game is 50% being centered and grounded and 50% game

Do you agree with this?

 

[ChemGod]

Idk man, this seems weird to me. In my experience, the more women I meet, the more I want to go out and meet more women. This value stuff is just in your head. You do not feel worthy, so girls will not feel you are worthy.

In my Ochem class, people ALWAYS come up to me and ask me for help, they ask me what to do next and how to do it, even though all I did to prepare was read the lab manual just like them. They can sense that I FEEL and ACT like I know what im doing, so they follow me.

You have to change your internal pereption of yourself. Recently, I have noticed girls being very nice to me and guys being cool with me as well. The only thing that has changed is my attitude towards life. Im really confident now and I feel very good inside.

If it helps, pretend like that is the first time you went out that night, than youll value yourself.

But I think the better solution is to just go out with the goal of having fun, instead of making it outcome dependent. I feel like the reason you may not like going out more than once is because the first time you go out, you arent having fun/getting many girls.

 

[Krueg]

Bars arent the best places to meet women... Usually, their with their friends, boyfriend, their lesbians or are just low-quality women. Go out during the day or atleast go to some respectable place if you do go out at night. Second, dont place your happiness on women. Theres alot more to life and if you stopped trying so hard, you wont be desperate. Women dont like desperate guys...

Good Luck!