I am in my late 30's and recently divorced. But the following can apply to anyone coming off a long dry spell.
When I separated from my wife last year, I took a break from women and went on a long hiatus. During that time, I took the opportunity to immerse myself into studying (but not directly applying) the DJ ways. I went on adventures and did lots of traveling to cool places. I did a lot of reading. I took up hobbies that occupied my time. I hit the gym. I upgraded my wardrobe. Basically, I made myself a more interesting and more attractive person. During that entire time, I was studying the content of this site, reading the forums, and learning the attitude it takes to be a DJ.
After my divorce became official recently, I was ready to go. I hit the streets with all that preparation and put it all to the test by doing approaches.
Fellas, this **** works. I can tell you first hand. There have been rejections of course, but overall, the women are coming.
So what's the problem you ask? Well, here it is. I haven't had sex in a long damn time. Didn't have it during my separation and barely had it in the latter years of my failed marriage.
I am nervous as hell. This girl I'm seeing has sky high IL and is coming over this week to watch a movie. We all know what that means. I am afraid of failing to perform after such a long time off. Or worse yet, being so nervous that I'm not able to get it up. After all the DJ traits I've displayed with this girl, that would be disastrous.
What would you guys who have come off a dry spell recommend here? Drink? Pop a blue pill as a fail safe measure?
When I separated from my wife last year, I took a break from women and went on a long hiatus. During that time, I took the opportunity to immerse myself into studying (but not directly applying) the DJ ways. I went on adventures and did lots of traveling to cool places. I did a lot of reading. I took up hobbies that occupied my time. I hit the gym. I upgraded my wardrobe. Basically, I made myself a more interesting and more attractive person. During that entire time, I was studying the content of this site, reading the forums, and learning the attitude it takes to be a DJ.
After my divorce became official recently, I was ready to go. I hit the streets with all that preparation and put it all to the test by doing approaches.
Fellas, this **** works. I can tell you first hand. There have been rejections of course, but overall, the women are coming.
So what's the problem you ask? Well, here it is. I haven't had sex in a long damn time. Didn't have it during my separation and barely had it in the latter years of my failed marriage.
I am nervous as hell. This girl I'm seeing has sky high IL and is coming over this week to watch a movie. We all know what that means. I am afraid of failing to perform after such a long time off. Or worse yet, being so nervous that I'm not able to get it up. After all the DJ traits I've displayed with this girl, that would be disastrous.
What would you guys who have come off a dry spell recommend here? Drink? Pop a blue pill as a fail safe measure?