In the old days, a girl only gave out her number to guys that she liked.
Nowadays, everyone is so interconnected and there are so many ways to communicate that it's almost impossible for her NOT to have given you her contact info.
For this reason, WATCH OUT when she says "I would prefer that we communicate by telephone". Or FB. Or email.
Often, this insidious rejection is worded so politely that you actually contact her with the suggested medium immediately, but it wasn't an invitation. You'll realize that when she doesn't answer her phone one minute after texting that you "should phone her". "Call me" meant "Don't text me (or call me)".
She "prefers phone calls" because they are easier to screen.
This phenomenon is most likely based on the fact that every time she gets a text she gets her hopes up that it's from that d*uche bag (with tattoos on the back of his neck) who picked her up (the night they met, while wearing spandex shorts) and f*cked her (without a condom) two Saturdays ago. She wants to restrict people like you from entering her priority queue which is reserved primarily for guys who will never in fact text her again.
So when this happens, unless she initiates contact with the other medium, never contact her again.
Have you experienced this form of rejection?
Nowadays, everyone is so interconnected and there are so many ways to communicate that it's almost impossible for her NOT to have given you her contact info.
For this reason, WATCH OUT when she says "I would prefer that we communicate by telephone". Or FB. Or email.
Often, this insidious rejection is worded so politely that you actually contact her with the suggested medium immediately, but it wasn't an invitation. You'll realize that when she doesn't answer her phone one minute after texting that you "should phone her". "Call me" meant "Don't text me (or call me)".
She "prefers phone calls" because they are easier to screen.
This phenomenon is most likely based on the fact that every time she gets a text she gets her hopes up that it's from that d*uche bag (with tattoos on the back of his neck) who picked her up (the night they met, while wearing spandex shorts) and f*cked her (without a condom) two Saturdays ago. She wants to restrict people like you from entering her priority queue which is reserved primarily for guys who will never in fact text her again.
So when this happens, unless she initiates contact with the other medium, never contact her again.
Have you experienced this form of rejection?
