"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Moderators Have Gone Too Far!!! Giovanni Cassanova Should Win Loser Of The Year!!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I'm the one who closed that thread. At least be mad at the right person.
A&F Brand Cologne
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that's a prestigious award he's getting.
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I would like to thank my friends here on sosuave... as well as my enemies.Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
that's a prestigious award he's getting.
Of course, I'd like to thank the Academy... and God, with whom all things are possible... and of course, penkitten... I couldn't have done it without you baby.
Thank you all and good night.
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That thread was stupid and the mods did the world a favor by closing it down.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MindoverMatter: Your mom is stupid but you dont' hear me saying anything.
Cassanova:
Like I care if you ban me. You are still going to wake up everyday and be the same loser, with no life but trying to earn people's respect on some online forum lol
I bet you paid for sex before loser
Cassanova:
Like I care if you ban me. You are still going to wake up everyday and be the same loser, with no life but trying to earn people's respect on some online forum lol
I bet you paid for sex before loser
MindOverMatter
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Lol you come up with that yourself or did your 300 lbs benching butt buddy write it for youMindoverMatter: Your mom is stupid but you dont' hear me saying anything.
Giovanni Casanova
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Mind Over Matter... just let him be... he'll be banned soon. I don't want you to get dragged into anything that will end up getting you banned, man.
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