“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The mindset of the Funny man

Brazilian_Blues_Boy

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Actually this started as a reply to Matrix's post but I decided to start a new thread...
To Matrix, congratulations for your awesome post !!
And see how much you can identify with this babe here!

Well, ****y 'n' Funny is really a way of being, not something you can't imitate... it's about seeing the world in a different way, like if you're the center of the universe ;) and all you want is hell good time...

Once a friend has told that I'm only good with the girls because of my sense of humor...
After some serious thinking, I noticed that it really helps me a lot.
But it's not the key... because sense of humor, everybody's got. Even the geeker AFCs have their stupid jokes, and lots of guys tell jokes and jokes to girls but don't get anywhere...

What makes the difference, is my desire, my passion, for FUN !!
I HAVE to laugh wildly at least once a day... I can't admit being depressed, sad or in a bad mood for longer than 30 minutes...

And something that makes me really really happy, fills me with joy, is to be able to share this desire and put a big smile on the ladies' faces... to have them laughing !!

You see, NLP can do a lot for you, as it's done for me, but it will never grow PASSION inside you... PASSION for FUN !!

The whole mindset of ****y 'n' funny, is living with no regrets and no excuses for your desires... to have good times as often as POSSIBLE... and AS SOON AS POSSIBLE too !!
It's having fun just for having fun, and loving every minute of it!!
Heck, how many times did I forgot to mack the girls because we were both laughing our a$$ses off !!

When I get old, I know that I'll look back and remember countless times when I laughed my ass off... and I'll smile, because I did not have an ordinary life... I made myself happy !!

Some guys are sooo worried about girls... so worried about what they do and what they don't that they forget to have fun with them!!

You know what, have a good time !! Kino if you want, hug her, hold her hand, say that her boobs are great... whatever you want and have fun with her... like WUWD has been saying, it's how you make her feel about herrself...

If you make her shine, feel awesome about herself, laugh and forget her problems, she will reward you with kino, intimacy and sweetness...

This again, is PASSION, not a techinque, and maybe not even a mindset !!
Please understand, that if you don't have this passion, you'll never enjoy the game completely, you may be even better than anyone else here, but still it won't feel the same for you as it is for me...

As Matrix said, women are bullsh!t spotters... so use it to your advantage !! When they sense that you want to have good, quality fun with them, they'll love it, and reward you with more and more rapport !!

The better PUAs at a.s.f. , are also the ones who are more enloved with WOMEN, in general !!

Love women !! Love seeing them laughing, smiling, angry, pissed, jealous, insecure, impatient, enloved, dreamy !!

And be patient, because a great comedian can not entertain a the same old audience everyday... he has a gift, and it is unfair not to share with everybody...and through sharing with new people his skills become sharper and sharper...

To end this rahter unorganized post, I'd like to thank Matrix for the marvelous work he did, and for inspiring me... and I'll leave with the following quotes:

"Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside of them was superior to
circumstance."

"Only those who dare to fail greatly, can achieve greatly"

"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with
those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor
defeat."

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do.
So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."

and the killer:

" Girls are our audience. We perform for their pleasure. We see into a woman's soul and try to fill her dreams. " - Juggler

BBB
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So true my fellow moderator... so very true. I can identify a lot with this post here. Passion... for anything is very important to have and B^3 cannot stress that enough. I cannot stand people who do not have any passion in life @ all... I would rather be friends with a passionate communist than a passive person who doesn't mind having life past them by @ all. Sweet post BBB... sweet post.

The Matrix... Reloading.
 

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Originally posted by BBB:
Some guys are sooo worried about girls... so worried about what they do and what they don't that they forget to have fun with them!!
So true. I reckon a lot of us guys have been guilty of that at least once in the past... I know I have... so this is a wake up call to you all!

Good post by the way. Points out the things that many guys have probably lost along the way to DJ-hood, being too artificial and caught up with doing C&F, Kino, etc..
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Nice post. I have something for you to think about though.


to have good times as often as POSSIBLE... and AS SOON AS POSSIBLE too !!
This caught my eye. This can help improve your game and give you happy times to look back on, i think this is important.

Save the lollypop today for the bicycle in the future. Have you heard that before? People might not think homework is fun, but it may lead to more fun in the future, and by having fun all day you are getting the most out of the day without regards to the future? Maybe its good to start concentrating on improving yourself rather then having fun sometimes to ensure you have more fun in the future.

I have been studying alot of different posters attitudes and none of their idea's totally suited me so i came up with my own.

My attitude is that i am doing either one of 2 things, improving or having fun, sometimes both. Short and simple. This ensure's you improve to achieve any goals you may want to achieve but makes sure you have a good time as well.

I might make a post about my attitude but im not sure if people would be interested in hesaring about it.
 

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Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Well, ****y 'n' Funny is really a way of being, not something you can't imitate... it's about seeing the world in a different way, like if you're the center of the universe ;) and all you want is hell good time...


HEHE so very true.

What makes the difference, is my desire, my passion, for FUN !!
I HAVE to laugh wildly at least once a day... I can't admit being depressed, sad or in a bad mood for longer than 30 minutes...


My deppresion can take a hole day, but very very rarely :)


And something that makes me really really happy, fills me with joy, is to be able to share this desire and put a big smile on the ladies' faces... to have them laughing !!

Oh yeah I love that too. And the best thing is you are having fun
with them.



The whole mindset of ****y 'n' funny, is living with no regrets and no excuses for your desires... to have good times as often as POSSIBLE... and AS SOON AS POSSIBLE too !!
It's having fun just for having fun, and loving every minute of it!!
Heck, how many times did I forgot to mack the girls because we were both laughing our a$$ses off !!


Yeah guilty of that ;)


When I get old, I know that I'll look back and remember countless times when I laughed my ass off... and I'll smile, because I did not have an ordinary life... I made myself happy !!

Again true.


Some guys are sooo worried about girls...

LOL sometimes guilty of this too :(

BBB

Great post BBB.
 

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Get up to the freaking top!!!
 

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Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.
 
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