The Mindset Needed To Be Successful

[Local Celebrity]

It's simple, every straight man wants to be successful with women, right? Well i'll give you the tip you need to have the confidence in ANY interaction with a woman, just tell yourself this:

"I could, but I don't want to"

Think about it, for example, alot of good looking women will use sex as a weapon against you. For example, showing you alittle extra skin, wearing certain clothes, just hinting to you about sex. Think about this, when you see a good looking woman walking down the street, what is your first thought? Our minds go immediately to sex, and alot of times, i've seen guys with the best game, get shotdown for a foolish mistake by wanting sex. (Like asking them to have sex with you)

Have you ever had a chick completely on your nuts, and you knew that you could have your way with her, but yet, you didn't want to? You could say/do anything what you want, because your automatically putting yourself in the position to have the upper hand. If your mindstate is that you have the power, results will be easy, you make women want you when you WANT them to.

Get it?



-LC

 

[BluEyes]

I've had an experience like that...Apparently me and this girl hooked up while we were drunk one time, and she was totally into me after that. Problem is, she wasn't really my type so I went into every conversation or meeting with her with the attitude of "I don't want sex" and it drove her insane.

So yes that does make sense.

Luckily I went up later and told her i wasn't into her like that and she eased off, now we're just friends.

 

[Sean O]

So if one of the many recovering AFCs on this site sees a HB that he might finally have the gall to approach, he should tell himself, "I could, but I don't want to?". Sorry man, that's bad advice.

The real key is simply to not put so much emphasis on stuff like picking up chicks, getting laid, having a girlfriend, i.e. to eliminate the PEDESTAL mindset! Remember that this stuff isn't a big deal one way or another, and you'll be fine.

Btw, the whole thing about not accepting sex from a woman? That's called playing hard to get. There's a BIG difference between that and "I could, but I don't want to".

 

[Local Celebrity]

What are you talking about? I said that's the MINDSET, when did I say you shouldn't "accept sex from a woman?"

Read it again.

 

[The Kidd]

Would you die for that mindset?

I could, but I don't want to... lol jk


I think what Sean O means is that AFC may use that mindset as an excuse to to talk themselves out of approaching. Like say everytime a girl walked past, an AFC would be like "I could've approached, but I just didn't want to" but truth is he's only fooling himself.